My daughter (12) and I moved in with my man and his two children son 17 daughter 15 whom he has full custody of and it was hell from the get go..we had plans to get married this past may but because of the turmoil it was cancelled ...I never in my life met such rude children..they ran that house and him and nothing that me and my daughter did was ever right..I begged him to talk to his children about it because I didn't feel it was my place to do so or for us all to go to counseling but he wouldn't do either. I found myself either hiding in the bedroom all the time or if he wasn't home finding somewhere to constantly go. I would turn this into a novel if I wrote about all the things that went on so I'll just give a few different examples..I get migraines if they knew I was sick in bed with one they would comment that the whole house shouldn't have to be quiet because I didn't feel good and then would be extra loud..my daughter would go to bed earlier than them and they would do the same..if I made dinner they wouldn't eat it..and were always commenting on how I couldn't do anything right..he and I couldn't even take a walk down the road without the daughter going by in a car with her friends and stopping to yell at him for not sitting at home with his son instead..with permission from him I decorated the house using both of our stuff the kids took a fit so I had to take my stuff down and put theirs back how it was..seriously I moved a pic of theirs to another room well it was such a big deal that it had to go back to the spot it was in but yet now that I don't live there they don't even have that pic hanging any more..his daughter was so jealous of our relationship that we had to stop doing things together because of the drama it caused..she went as far as faking a head injury for crying out loud. When I moved in he promised to build another bedroom..his kids didn't like that idea didn't think he should be spending the money on it so the six mo that I lived there was in the unfinished basement and they would just come down there any time they wanted and go through my things..after six months he said he thought it would be best if I moved out something he promised me he would never do (this was during the school year causing my daughter to have to switch schools and he knew how I felt about this) he wanted us to still be a couple with the hopes that things would work themselves outiI agreed and after nine months of not living there nothing has gotten better..if I go there to visitthey snub me or call me names which he magically never hears..he had to get daughters permission or sneak to my house so that almost never happens and when it does she'll call constantly for the littlest things..and oh they went on vacation..him his son his sons gf which now lives there his daughter and her bf..but of course I couldn't come. I just don't know how to handle this anymore when I talk too him he just gets mad at me and makes excuses for them..I love him but if this continues we don't stand a chance. If anyone has any advice I'm more than willing to listen and guess I should add that they treat their own mother like shit too.