H is learning what it means for me to have no authority.we was sitting at the table for dinner. the skids were doing their own thing. anyway H asks me "where sd is?". told him "she called me while he was asleep and said she was going to ride with a boy."we met the boy.called to let me know since it was dads rules(she to call if she gets into his truck or go where with him. i asked "where to?" she hesitated and said "oh he is ah moving so ah we helping." i thought she lieing but im not in the position to tell her no. so i said "ok have fun". needless to say he got a irritated look then he fought very hard to keep quiet when i recounted the convo word for word. it was a very short phone call so it was easy to remember.H never said a word.oh well his mother whom he put so much stock in said to stop authority with them so i did.