DH and I went to court last month over 16 year old SD. She took off last year because we caught her on porn sites and having sexual conversations with women in other states. She filed reports with DSS that were completely bogus to retaliate. Said I watched porn with 7 year old ss and DH was a druggie. We participated in the investigation, drug tests, they spoke with ss at school- poor fella, he didn't even know what a dirty movie was- thought it meant cursing. SD also filed reports on BM and BM's father. She eventually took DH to court, BM wanting full custody because 'child refuses to go to her fathers' It's a big mess The sad part for me is I have 3 children of my own who do NOT want to be around SD and refuse to come over because of this mess. I don't know what to do. I used to be a bad parent, years ago, walked away from my children then fought so hard to get back on track (It's been 5 years I've been back in their lives) I worked so hard to see my children now they don't want to see me because of the trouble with SD and DH acts like he just doesn't care sometimes. Any thoughts, ideas? I can't blame my children for not wanting to come, I would go somewhere else too while SD is here (the judge is making her stay every other weekend) The girl is troubled, and I feel like she has ruined my life. I love DH or I would consider getting out of this marriage-