I am so amazed the women who keep having children are not psychologically or emotionally prepared for them. My S/D BM has 3 kiddos from my b/f and now 2 more within 2 years of meeting her now hubby. I wish I could say a good thing about her but at this point, after 3 years, I;ve decided that she is ill eqipped to take care of herself let alone more kids. AKA OCTOMOM!!