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SS needs to knock

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Submitted by cats_only on Sun, 11/04/2012 - 7:08am

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Had our morning romp interrupted by SS4 who never knocks and can't be alone for more than 5 minutes (literally, I've mentioned before he makes his dad watch him use the toilet). So he got him settled with snacks and cartoons again and tried to get me in the mood again. I won't lie, it felt good to say, "Nope. Mood is killed. This is why he shouldn't be allowed in our bedroom and taught that a closed door means knock." Whining doesn't get through to my guy, but I'm sure not having sex did Smile

Ironically enough I was browsing this forum on issues of SKs crawling into the master bed as I fell asleep last night.

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Submitted by Tiffani3 on Sun, 11/04/2012 - 9:26am

I feared that problem would happen with me.. SD 3 1/2 bc BM doesn't even provide a bed for her bc they sleep together. I made it very clear to DH and SD she is not to even step foot in out room from day one of us living together and it's fine great so far!! I can only imagine your pain!! So sorry. Why don't you set new ground rules? Make that your personal space kick his ass out faster than he can realize what happened

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Submitted by sterlingsilver on Sun, 11/04/2012 - 10:05am

when I first met dh my ss was 11 almost 12 and he didn't knock either and he also would sit outside of our door listening to us having sex. He even mentioned once to his dad that I made a good amount of noise for his own entertainmant. Once I heard that comment my mood was killed for a long time. Shit - kids. :jawdrop: