So I met my husband when I was 20 and he was 23, he had 2 kids when I met him ages 5 months and 2 years old. Fast forward 4 years and we have been married 2 years, still no kids of our own and live in Germany as my husband is military.
There are no words as to how much I loathe those freaking kids.
They're honestly not bad kids, when they're with their dad they listen to him and occasional have meltdowns but not usually. I mean they're kids, it happens. I'm pretty sure I'm resentful because my SD was an accident 2 months into my husbands past relationship and so they rushed to get married blah blah blah and then they later had another kid to try and fix their marriage. Genius right? So technically I would only have to be dealing with one kid instead of 2 if someone had decided to use the other half of their brain.
Anyway, BM is a real character. She's had 4 boyfriends and 1 husband since her and my husbands separation... Real healthy for the kids right? Not to mention she's had another kid so she's a single mom to 3 now. She's also in the military so we don't pay a ton in child support but either way it's annoying seeing that amount of money being sent to her account knowing it's probably not getting used for what it should be since she never buys them clothes, shoes and things they need. I'm just giving you the gist of her, cause really that doesn't even begin to scratch the surface about the type of person she is.
Oh, and naturally she hates me as we are polar opposites.
The kids came to Germany for Christmas and I literally thought I was gonna die. As I was going to pick my husband and them up from the airport I got major anxiety, nausea and I had a mini panic attack. When they're here my marriage is basically livin on a prayer because I guess I take it out on my spouse and we hardly talk or spend time together since I'm usually not at the house. When they're there I usually leave for the whole day and don't come back until they're in bed. It's March and I'm soaking in every minute I have my sanity as they will be here for the whole summer.... I honestly don't know how I'm gonna get through this.