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So I checked with their pediatrician today about the dress issue and pediatrician said that how I handled it by not giving her attention on the dress or making her bed was appropriate. She also stated that I was right about the behavior as well.. so, therefor she stated that she sd will be praised for her own stuff, and to let her know that we are working with brother on whatever we are working on with him at the time. So, k oodles to me not even knowing but recognizing the issues.. it was out of jealousy to get attention from her dad. That I did know..
Sally, what am I supposed to
Sally, what am I supposed to teach her how to get attention. When I praise her brother I won't praise her as well, sorry.. she.will learn her place in this family just like her brother. But when they out seeking attention it is not wise to compliment her unless it's something she did, not on what her brother did.. she wants attention when everyone else is getting it. That is not healthy..
I don't think you understand
I don't think you understand she is trying to get attention from her dad. I will not praise her for something I asked her brother to do. Period. I ignore it. I praise her for stuff she does, but this child hits tears things up is aggressive and seeks attention in the wrong way this child is far from a normal 4 year old.. she has been abused, neglected, and seeks attention in the wrong way, ie the dress.. I am sorry but her dr sees that it's wrong that is why I am taking her to therapy. They act out for attention. You have no idea you are not a professional however thanks for your feed back even though it's wrong
Well her dr confirmed and
Well her dr confirmed and when she wants praise as well I don't give it to her because she wasn't attention. No, she will get it with her own stuff.. so, the dr told me I.handled it right.