My life is officially a disaster!
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We have had custody of my SD for 3 months now still paying BM child support because everything isn't final. She refuses to pay us even the money that she is receiving. Today she was suppose to sign a paper to waive her rights and decided she wasn't going. My MIL took it upon herself to bribe her by using the SD in order to get her to meet her. I'm just so fed up with the whole ordeal. I'm 4 months pregnant and have a BD7. I want to just walk away. I don't know what to do. BM walks all over my DH and since SD6 has been at our house we have all fallen apart. What to do???
Leave. It is NOT worth it,
Leave. It is NOT worth it, trust me!
First off, whatever is going
First off, whatever is going on in regards to the court case for custody, find out what you need to do to expedite it. Keep track of the months of child support paid while your husband has the child, and document everything to prove you guys had custody during that time. You can request that she repay you that money in addition to whatever child support she may be ordered to pay. It will likely be granted if you can document it.
Second, take a deep breath. You are frustrated, overwhelmed, feeling panicky (and rightfully so). You are reacting emotionally right now not logically and if you do something rash like walk away from it all, you may regret it. Find someone to talk to, alone, as a couple, as a family be it a pastor or a licensed therapist. Don't keep trying to shoulder it all yourselves because you're cracking under the strain. Get some help.