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I moved out on Fathers Day

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Submitted by confusedsm11 on Mon, 06/20/2011 - 7:54am

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Blended Family Issues

Dh was supposed to leave and he didn't. The fighting didn't stop and the anger just kept building. All I wanted was for Dh to talk to me but he said no. I asked him to say he loved me and he couldn't...so we left. I feel awful now for actually leaving on Fathers Day. I feel awful all around. I packed the kids up and came to my moms...where I don't want to be. I love my DH, I really really do but I need to get thru to him. I dont think I will. Im trying to accept life for what it is going to be but this really really sucks.

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Submitted by alwaysanxious on Mon, 06/20/2011 - 8:33am

I'm sorry you are going through this, but it sounds like it was coming. Of course you didn't want it. You want him to say no i'm sorry I miss you and I need you.

Its better that you aren't there stressing and fighting. Its better that you walked away from it. He needs some time alone and so do you. Taking a step back will help you see how things really are and if they are right for you.

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Submitted by lost hope on Mon, 06/20/2011 - 9:26am

I am sorry this happened. I know how difficult it must be for you as my Ex-FH and I have been separated for 2 months now. We've both said it was over, but we can't seem to make it final. I miss him and I want to work things out.

He needs to see how much me misses you and loves you.