I am a mother/step-mother to 7 boys!! 3 are mine,3 his, one ours. All 9 & under.. His live out of state and they are here for the summer. His 9 year old with Aspergers doesn't like me, or my kids. He goes out of his way to annoy and say disrespectful things to my 3 year old. He has been physical with me when I discipline him. I can't help but to feel such hate toward him.. How do you respect somebody who treats your 3 year old like trash? He has 2 other half siblings who he lives with along with his 2 full brothers. He treats them with respect, even his step father. So I know this is a choice he makes when he disrespects myself and my kids and he can control himself, he chooses not to. What do I do??