Hi. I am new to this forum. We are a blended but unmarried family. Both of our exes are, well, exes for a reason.or lack of reason. FH(futurehubby?) has started custody proceedings and I am jealous. Althouhg his ex moves around alot, she's not as strung out on opoids as my ex, so we can usually expect to hear from her 5 minutes before she shows at our door(no longer alowed in our house)to pick up "her kids" regardless of our PLANS.My ex is in and of jail more than she, so I do not have an address for him, therefor, I can't file for custody, therefor, can't file for supervised visitations. There is so much jealousy and contension (sorry, no spell check) beteen our kids(1 my bs, 2 my ss)because my ex has a script for opoids, therefor, fh's ex is now friends with my ex.My ss's come home from wherever bm is staying saying how they got to see my bs's dad (for purposes of bm buying said 'script)when my bs does not. His bf has on occasion (like when he's out of money and wants to rob us again)tried to call.I will intercept. He has walked out on this boy 4 times already. I don't want my bs to see his bd, but little boys need to feel wanted and loved (daddy lets me eat candy for breakfast.). I can only play the bad guy for so long. I'm in PA and would like to know, is there anyway to file for sole custody without an address for the other parent? I would say this makes sense, given drug usage in this culture, but legal and sensible do not often co-incide. I will never alow my son to be exposed to the element at any age, let alone so young.His anger waxes and wanes with the tide of crap comming from bm's shoreline. I must remind myself, if I shoot them, it will not help because I'm the first one the cops will look for! HELP!