My husband has two kids from previous common law marriage. His daughter is 32 has four kids by three different criminal fathers. The son is 29 and is a flamboyant gay. Actually not his bio son. Ex dropped the he's not your son bomb when child support ended. My problem? My step daughter was beaten up by "the love of her life" for the second time. The guy is a felon was charged with murder, robbery, assault with deadly weapon. She's indifferent to her kids. They lived here with us and my basement and bathrooms looked atrocious. What got her out of our house happened when had an issue with me in my house. I fussed my hubby for two solid hours. She walked around here like a priviledged hen. My hubby enables her. He gives her money, won't let her suffer and if I were a weaker person she would dump her kids like her half sister on her in laws. Back to the beating. Hubby took sd to ER for stitches and came home mad with me because his daughter needed him and she couldn't come here. Not true. His daughter won't help herself do anything to better her lot in life. She smokes marijuana and consort with criminals. Hubby feed her money and when batterer was in jail sd sent him money. Her 15 yo daughter is sexually active, kicked out of school for performing sex acts in school . We quit family vacations because she dumps her kids on hubby and stays home. This person has hit rock bottom and is dragging my marriage with it. I was a teen mother but I rose above that. I'm a professional with a college degree making a decent income. My daughters are everyday workers, living on their own terms. One daughter earns six fugures. They tired of being the village when the sd only continued to take. My hubby just won't practice tough love. We're not talking because all he wants to do is accuse and compare. My girls won't come over anymore to spare me from the insanity of comparison. My daughter is having a difficult pregnancy so I brought her home for a few days to watch her and help with my active grand. No. I never toldtold my hubby in a time of need sd couldn't come here. But my hubby knew federalfederal felon was staying in her apartment and he's silent to me over his kids activities. Dysfunction is normal to these people. The whole family! I have never seen anything like this!