Went on BM's facebook today and see that she is left town last night with her fiance and won't be back until later in the week. Does she call and tell DH that "hey, I'm leaving town for a heads up can you watch SS?" NO! Instead she doesn't call and tell us anything and leaves SS with her brother, a convecticted felon who wait for it, was convicted of child endangerment. He had his infant daughter in the car and was running and selling drugs across state lines, ya thats who you leave a child with. This brother moved in with her a few months ago and he has been watching him and hour here or there, not ideal but we can deal.....but for days at a time? SS has told us that his uncle doesn't make sure he's fed and if he says he is hungry microves him a kid cuisine and gives him a little debbie.

Now I get that we live an hour and a half away(her choice she moved) so SS would miss school if he came here for these days she's gone but we could get his schoolwork and I could do it with him. It wouldn't kill him to miss a few days of school if I did his work with him. We should have been told that she was leaving town if it effects SS, why can't this woman be a parent. First rule......don't leave your child with a felon who can't even get custody of his own kid.
Vent over.