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Submitted by wellisntthisfun on Wed, 09/19/2012 - 8:40am

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"Dont let someone become a priority in your life when you are just an option in theirs." I find this so true lately when it comes to SD33 that I have come to take this at heart and shall start worrying more about me rather than her.

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Submitted by sandye21 on Wed, 09/19/2012 - 11:44am

I agree - why should we feel obligated to make them a priority in our lives when the obligation is not reciprocal? I guess this would be a good come-back for when DHs give the old "you're not trying" BS. Just say you don't want SD to feel obligated to make SM a priority in HER life. LOL LOL