Hello All,

After bailing on my 7 month marriage last year, due to SD's crazy messed up ways and DH supporting HER and not me...he wants me back. Now, before you all start telling me to run in the opposite direction, here's the deal:

He's called over and over for the last year. Telling me he KNOWS she's the problem, that he loves me and that I was 110% right about his daughter! SHOCKER!!! Not really....I haven't taken his calls for months and then....

Fast-forward to October, 2011. He caught me off guard when he called from a number I didn't recognize and told me EVERYTHING that has gone on since I left and divorced him. SD is involved in drugs, lost her job as an MA, her druggie BF lost a killer job at a plant that DH's best friend hooked him up with (NO education past 10th grade and $30/hr!!) that is impossible to lose from what he told me. He also sat her down, told her he wanted to work things out with me since I was the best thing that ever happened to him and that SHE was the reason we split up. Of course her back-lash was a series of texts to me that were nasty, mean and calling us dysfunctional! LOLOLOLOLOLOLOL!! I didn't respond, sent them to him and he put an end to her crap. I thought there was a chance until this one came in:
"F*%$ U Julie. I'm at my Daddy's house, sleeping in my Daddy's bed where I'm sure you wish you could be. You will not be in his life if I can help it and it will be a cold day in hell before I get out of his bed for you."

All I can say is EWWWWWW, creepy, and good luck with that one! There is NO WAY I'm going back to that crap. The funny part is, when she did leave his home (she lives with BM who's a druggie too and they fight BAD), she left it a complete mess and since he works on the road, it set filthy for two addtional weeks until he came home to FLIES, dirty dishes piled in the sink (dishwasher works fine) and dirty, grease-filled pans on the stove. LOLOLOLOLOLLLOL!! SHE STILL HAS A KEY!!!

She then took to Facebook and went off on her page about me. I am the admin on my work account so I can see her page (she blocked me personally.) I asked DH to please ask SD to remove her crap about me from her page. His response??? "It might be another Julie."

That was it for me. All the ideas of him loving me and making me #1, which is what he said, gone. He doesn't understand and gets sooooo mad when I try to talk about it. He doesn't live in reality and obviously SD and her kid are still #1. His mother told me she's disowned her grand daughter and she won't be shocked if CPS is called on them. I will NOT be around for that crap!!

So....I've moved on and I'm good! Please say HI if you were around when I was last year and I hope that I give some of you out there that are DONE the strength to move on. Sometimes it's just too much!

Miss you guys!! Hope you are all healthy and happy!!!

Take care!!