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I Thought I Was Done Venting. I Was Wrong.

Lady's picture

A lot has happened the last few month's.My mother passed away in April from cancer .The cancer was very aggressive and she lived 6 weeks after we was told she was sick. My family and I spent all our time with my mom because we are a very close family. My SK'S and DIL'S didnt have a thing to say about my mom. No Im sorry for your loss ,can we do something for you ,Nothing! One DIL has a 21 year old brother that has a rare stomach cancer and they have benefits for him to help raise money .I went to donate to the benefits and even though my DIL and SK;s never spoke to me and smubed me like I had a diease at the benefit, I was glad I was there. I did what was right. It does bother me that when my mom did see them in the past she was always nice to them. I guess it shows what really good Christains they say they are. NOT!

Sk's And DIL's still accuse me of spreading rumors on them. They all have been told to come to me and confront me and we will get it all out on the table. I mean really,if they are going to accuse me of spreading rumors don't it make logical sense to confront me about it? If someone is spreading rumors on me I would go to them. What some cowards. SS told DH the other day they would need help this year taking granddaughter to school of a morning.Of course SS told DH he had to be alone taking her to school. DH said to SS if I put my GD in my car to take her to school then I will bring Lady if she wants to come with me. LOL. SS said well we don't want your wifey around our kid and then he told DH we will hire someone to take her to school. DH said alrighty do what you want to. Im telling you this family is one crazy family. They are still mad because all of them mistreated my D really bad and this mom came unglued and I am still glad I didn't take their crap. Im glad to be back to talk to everyone :)It gets better as time goes by.

Towanda's picture

Lady,so sorry for the loss of your mother! You have had quite a year.

My SD's treated me the same way when my mother died 3 years ago.

I am so proud of your DH standing his ground with his grown idiots. They are still trying to blackmail him with his grandchildren. I know that feeling too.

Hang in there!

sandye21's picture

Lady, I too am sorry for your loss. Isn't it amazing - you think skids can get no lower than they are and then they surprise you? Your Husband did the right thing, not buying the Grandchild bait. If all of our DHs would take the same approach it would make things a lot easier. Please do not do anything else for these a$$es. They don't deserve any more of your time or thoughts.