Question 1: We are filing a child support modification/custody modification in the state of NC. As of now my DH custody is joint custody yet there is no parenting plan so ex can deny him his children any time she wants. We are also filing for a support modification because we now have a daughter and with his HIGH cs it's hard to put food on the table, trust me I've cut every corner this is the last route I wanted to go. She also is getting child support from AL and she moved to NC right after their divorce, so we know she should have let AL know she moved and notified NC of his cs. I know some states do count subsequent children I'm just curious do any of you know if NC does?

Question 2: Upon my husbands divorce agreement he was to make her car payment for 16 months. When the 16 months was over with she was supposed to have the car out of his name and start making payments. She failed to get it out of his name on time, it took her 7 months of us badgering her and finally she got it out after we made a payment and we sent her a certified letter saying if it wasn't out in 30 days we would be forced to pursue legal action. They also have a credit card that she is supposed to be splitting. The divorce agreement doesn't give her a specific time frame to pay it in it just says "when she's financially able". She's been financially able for a year now, making just as much if not more than my husband. If we take her to court will a judge make her start paying? Has anybody went through this type thing?