BM was served with a petition for change of custody this week. SD11 wants to live here and we have a serious case of parental alienation going on with BM. She's terrible!! Well, SD11 has been here for a week. On Friday (it will be 2 weeks then), she goes back to BM's house for 2 weeks there as well. Well, I'm afraid I'm going to sit around worrying about all the things that BM feeds SD about us over her 2 weeks there. I know she will... always does. She'll try to turn her against us as usual. She's already got all these things planned for SD to do, trying to be the "fun" parent this summer. She'll do anything to change SD's mind. I know I've posted about this stuff before, but do you guys have any suggestions? I want to relax and not stress the whole time she's there about all that BM will say. Should I discuss anything will SD before she goes over there?