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wife wants more kids not with me

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Submitted by teamventure09 on Tue, 08/18/2009 - 6:18pm

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my wife has two kids i have 0.
we were discussing birth control and i said what if one of us gets fixed? she says you can get fixed but i don't want to so i can have more kids someday. she's basically telling me she wants to have more kids with someone else. i am offended. also, if anyone should get fixed it should be her because she already has two kids.

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Submitted by startingover2010 on Tue, 08/18/2009 - 9:22pm

if thats what she meant. i can see where u can think that way by her response.

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Submitted by Rags on Tue, 08/18/2009 - 10:17pm

I guess I would suggest that, as EvilB just said, you ask her directly.

I am 45 and my Wife is 33. I would love having more children with her (SS is our only kid) but my age makes me a little nervous about starting over from ZERO.

My Wife tends to interpret my offer to get snipped as not wanting to have a kid with her. That is definitely not the case. I was just suggesting options of Birth Control since she has been taking care of it and due to a health issue can no longer use hormone based BC options.

So, ask your wife if you heard what she meant.

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