My husband and I both had good jobs when we first got married. His children measured everything in dollar signs. Now I'm no dummy. He retired before me. Then i was making almost double what he was. My son needed new school clothes. School was starting. He said " What does SD get?" I said I dont know really but I'de like to know how you two could make 4 trips to walmart a week and spend 400 dollars. So I guess she got a lot. That was my response. Now guess who handels the money? Have been for 4 years now. This is why his children resent me. They can't pick the money tree anymore. I'm sure some of you have been through this. If they ever get over it that would be nice, if not so what.