Another post detailing my shitty life....so here it is folks....

Myself and my FDH were living abroad for several years but he was pining for him son so we moved back. However, we hit bad times due to the recession and while he walked back straight into a well paying job, I (even though I have master qualifications) was unable to find a job in our area. However, I got one at the other end of the country which means for the past few months, I have only seen my FDH and SKID every few weeks. As my FDH has 2 BMs to pay, he was unable to afford to rent a house independently until I'm back to share the cost so he has had to rent a room in his elderly fathers house. As this is a strange set up which can't be avoided unfortunately, we have a double bed (for myself and FDH) and another bed for SS10. However, when I'm away he sleeps with FDH. Is this normal? I never did this with my parents. I will be moving back for good in a few weeks time and we will need to stay here until we get set up somewhere else. Also as FDH and BM have a very loose custody agreement, skid can stay with us days at a time depending on what he wants to do! :sick: Total invasion of privacy and worried how he/I will react to this when I'm back for good?