Really? WHY ME??
I keep asking my self everyday what I did to deserve all of this shit. As most of you know all the shit I've had to go thru with MMM and my SS18.
Now I get to go thru ALL of it again with my BS and XH. 12-14-11 We had to go to court b/c of my son. (read previous blogs)
Sperm donor g/f showed up claiming that Sperm Donor "wanted to come" but b/c of work couldnt. (yes you read it right a job).
The PO reamed my son a new ass sitting out in the hallway before court, then in the court 2 different times, then in the little room off the courtroom, then AGAIN out in the hallway. All b/c he(son) was being a complete ass hat.
My son is now on HA, has a DNA (do not associate) with order against all the kids that were drinking with him including his g/f.
he also has to go thru D/A counseling and anger management, a year long program with the courts. He has to go see the judge every week for about 3-4 months then 2x a month for about 3-4 months then 1x month for 3-4 months. It all depends on his attitude. His PO is convinced that my son will end up in DH for his behavior.
We hadnt been out of the courts for 5 minutes tops and he was already trying to call his g/f and thru his phone at me. His attitude for the first 2-3 days was GRRRRRRRRRRR. Now it has calmed down a little but every day there is somethign that sets him off and hes about ready to get knocked out....BY ME!!
I went to XH house to get my sons stuff. dad's g/f had everything packed up for me no problem. I forgot his pills and went back and got them. When I first gave them to her they were brand new RX. just came out of the bad from the pharmacy. He is on adderall and abilify. He was there for 2 weeks. So roughly 14-15 days of pills should have been left. His adderall only had 4 days left and his Abilify had 25 days left. Someone had called the pharmacy to refill his pills, I have it set up that they call me when they are ready. I let them know to cancel it until I called and I set up a PIN number. I asked dad's g/f what happened to the rest of the pills she told me that my son had been taking them like he should have and that it must have not been a full RX. Ummm yea RIGHT!! I know what I sent down there!!
My XH has finally got arrested for not reporting to jail (for non payment of CS) He was arrested this past Fri. and had to go to court this mon. (which of all days was his b-day) LOL. He is in there until the middle of March. His g/f has been writing all sorts of BS on her FB sort of blaming me for his going....and yes before anyone says it....I did block her.
Of course the Adderall was
Of course the Adderall was missing! It has street value as a recreational drug and has either been sold or used by unauthorized persons. Abilify does not. Glad that you have set up a PIN and are taking charge of specific ordering. However, short of giving him one pill at a time while he is in their custody, it is almost impossible to prevent their abuse.
I would suggest that you provide them with only the EXACT number of pills necessary to see him through the visit or consult your doc about the potential for a "drug holiday" for the time that he is with them. In certain circumstances, such as time when school is not in session, doctors will approve time off of the meds to add to their positive use during the time that they are taken and lessen any side-effects from constant use.
He is back living with me and
He is back living with me and my DH. He is to only have supervised visits with his bio dad so there would be no reason he should have any, any more. According to his Dr. and his PO, and counselor he is to stay on them EVERY DAY as if he does not he has very BAD side effects and outburts!! It's during the times that he is not on his meds that he had suicidal thougths and is very out of control.
But ur right they are probably already sold or someone else took them.
Wow - that is really low!!!
Wow - that is really low!!! A med that he absolutely NEEDS each day and they just helped themselves to it? You may want to consider involving the police. There is a huge issue now with prescription drugs and Adderral is one of the targeted scrips in some areas. If someone is low enough to steal needed meds from a CHILD then this may not be the first crime they have committed and the local police may be familiar with them already. Sure they will deny all knowledge or say that they were "spilled down the sink" (that is a popular one for some reason!) but police are well-versed in working with that.
Just a thought. And this does not constitute legal advice. Just a personal observation!