one month in
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Only one month into parenting the skids & mine & ours all alone. And fml! 2 weeks in, sd12 lost her mind, screaming at me, turns out bm has been PAS big time with her. And they were waiting until DH left country to pull this shit.
She lost all electronics, and was grounded for a week. But that's drug out to two, because she won't do her daily chores.
So me & bios get to do it all while she does nothing and has no problem being grounded apparently.
But ya know, she's probably in need of a break since shes been in charge of all the meals. Chores & kids for 4 years, cyz blended 7 is so lazy :/
Dad is out of the country?
Dad is out of the country? Send the brat to BM. She is NOT your problem.
If dad isn't there,she should
If dad isn't there,she should be with her mother. Let mom deal deal with her foolishness. The visitations should resume once dad returns.
The mom hasn't had custody in
The mom hasn't had custody in 5 years, hasn't seen them in 3, and lives on the opposite coast. It is out of control at this point.
If BM hasn't see them in
If BM hasn't see them in 3yrs, the PAS has to be coming via phone/internet social media with BM? Cut down the contact and when/I kids and BM squeal give them all the option of BM actually parenting her children or shutting the f-up.
How long is Dad out o country for? Meltdowns wouldn't play with me as this SD would be treated nor have any less expectations/rules/chores than any of the others. She could scream a it all she pleased. The kid has a choice. She can either be a part of the family and do her share and participate or she can live a lonely bored existence without any privileges in her bedroom. She's go to school and straight back to bedroom. She'd get out to make her P&J sandwich for dinner and back she'd go.
It's on her. She can have the nice Mom/SM (both you) or she can have one that doesn't give a hoot if SD lives 16/24 in the bedroom starring at the wall.
Yes, it was all thru fb
Yes, it was all thru fb messaging. I've been telling my husband to watch that for a long time. He of course didn't believe anything was going on... Yeah, what I could have ever imagined as being bad was 20x worse. Just volatile stuff being said about me and dh both.
This morning she told me she didn't believe she should have to do chores, and thought she was above that, and above me. That's cute.
Oh and she does not have electronic access now. My dh is gone 3 months at a time, with 2 weeks off in between.