The more I hear this term, the more I am liking it.

It applies to every aspect of life. But it seems like BM is finally starting to face hers. Not to the magnitude that I think she should, but it is still happening.

The kicker for me, is she create it all; she set it all in motion, and now, she gets to deal with it. I'm not cleaning up the mess, and neither is DH. The skids are still oblivious to some of it (they know things are happening, but don't understand fully--why it's happening), but the courts are not, and neither are the credit card companies, or banks who made the loans, or her bosses.

Best thing is, I don't have to deal with it at all!