WTF!!! So instead of hearing a word breathed from BM's attorney, the law guardian is now speaking on her behalf. What the hell is going on? The law guardian suggested both parents attend a child stress-prevention seminar, DH went, BM showed an hour late to the first, and didn't bother attending the second, and yet, LG is basically saying she's speaking to the mother, and the mother agrees to XY&Z but DH needs to respond by doing other things. The law guardian has not spoken directly to DH in well over a year, yet she speaks with BM on the phone, attends parent-teacher conferences with BM, and insists the non-truths BM suggests are totally fair game...like telling the whole panel of teachers that SS12 suffers asperger's, when that has never been confirmed. The law guardian was there, and yet, all 7 of these school professionals were under the impression that SS12 has asperger's....did she miss that part of the conversation? I'm confused as to how she would hear all the same info BM was giving them, and still agree to formally test SS12 for asperger's, if she already agrees he's been diagnosed. Is it completely over her head that BM is going around telling people things that are not true?! And for some reason, this is okay????

Our lawyer basically told us the judge isn't going to listen to her if she's allowing faulty, incorrect evaluations sway her opinion, which it seems she's doing. The judge probably won't change a thing as far as custody, because BM has been behaving herself, probably trying to prove she should have the kids more...despite picking up SS9 over an hour late from school here and there...because, she just forgot.

The whole reason we are even IN court is because BM is the one who refused to discuss, and CONTINUES to refuse to discuss ANY OF THIS with DH.

Sorry for the vent....but I'm PISSED!!!