It's been Going on 5 years and probably not stopping anytime
Soon. My resentment and anger is mostly towards BM and the shit storms she tries to cause in our home. She'll get quit, I'll start letting go and we'll all be cordial and then she starts shit again and the resentment starts growing again. I can't wait till SS turns 18. First time she starts shit (and she will) I will gleefully tell her what I've been thinking for years. Screw the always taking the high road.
The day I disengaged.... no
The day I disengaged....
no more anger, and never really resented the kid... not her fault she got shitty parents.
It's an ongoing process. Gym
It's an ongoing process. Gym workouts help.
7 years in and the anger
7 years in and the anger still crops up from time to time.
It's been Going on 5 years
It's been Going on 5 years and probably not stopping anytime
Soon. My resentment and anger is mostly towards BM and the shit storms she tries to cause in our home. She'll get quit, I'll start letting go and we'll all be cordial and then she starts shit again and the resentment starts growing again. I can't wait till SS turns 18. First time she starts shit (and she will) I will gleefully tell her what I've been thinking for years. Screw the always taking the high road.