Well its been a little while since I have posted anything, THere has been wayyy to much going on for me to get on and vent or anything for that matter.... Anywho, A little background for anyone who doesnt know the situation.

My BS was accused by my Ex Husband and his spouse of molesting their son, when we told Dhs who my BS has been around it ended up involving my DH's kids from a previous marriage. Now that the vindictive hound from H*ll found out suddenly there was accusations from the middle SS, from a situation that happened over a year ago. Its remarkable how a 7 year old would remember things that never happened. Anyway, my BS went to behavior hospital and so on, Now he is home and We have set in place extrmemly stict rules, boundries, door alarms, and CONSTANT ADULT SUPERVISION. BS has told me on several occasions that he feels like he is living in a prison, and hes only 11. And even though all of this is proven the hound from hell wont let my DH see his children unless my kids are gone. ( a little history of the hound from hell... when my DH and I were dating she did everything she could to break us up. As you can see that didnt happen because he is now my DH, yet she still trys everything she can to cause fights between DH and me. It didnt work until she mentioned my BS. Now that she sees that she has gotten a reaction out of me that is what she uses as ammunition to get in between me and DH. Dh is very passive and doesnt want to fight or argue, he has let hell hound control him for years and I am trying to stop this !!! ) Anyway, I have made arrangements with my Ex Husband to visit his my BS & BD 1 time per month because he is unstable with visitation and tends to upset the my BK's severly when he breaks his promises. So NOW that this arrangement has been made, The hound from hell calls and wants to know when we will take the SK's, DH has told her the arrangement yet she still says that we MUST send my BK's away before he can see his kids either that or MY DH can stay the weekend with her and the SK's... LIKE HELL !!!!! Of course DH said NO !!! he was not staying with her. He has made several offers that are in our financial budget but yet she refuses. She told him that she would continue to dangle the 3 boys infront of his face until he does what she wants him to do. And my poor passive DH is upset cause he cant see his kids... I dont know what to tell him to do. I have given him all of the options that I know of, but due to him not wanting to hurt the boys anymore than what they have been, he is taking his time doing anything about it. GGGGRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR!!!!!