Saturday is the day when me and my family get together and play cards. Well last Saturday my STBH son cried to stay with me. I usually send them packing when he has to work, but since it was just one I decided to let him stay with me for the night. So we went down to my grandmothers house and i was playing cards. My family is a kid producing machine let me tell so it was kids everywhere. Next thing I know there is complete silence. And we all know that when kids get silent they are doing something that they have no business doing. So i called my STBSS name and asked him what they were doing. He said playing a game. I was like what game. He got smart and said a game. I was mad and wanted to beat his butt, but he is not mine so I couldn't. So yesterday at my nieces game a friend of the family comes up to me and says i heard that STBSS was hunching on your niece while you were playing cards. I could've blown a gasket. So when the game was over i asked her and she told me everything. I was so mad i wanted to cry. So i grounded my niece for not telling because we have had the talk to where she knows to tell SOMEBODY if ANYBODY touches on her and it makes her feel uncomfortable. I don't care if its her dad, grandad, me, teacher, it doesn't matter she is to tell someone. So i took XBOX, TV, and computer away. STBSS better be glad that he is not by BS because i would've.... So I told STBH about it last night when he called from work. He didn't say anything. So i told him that STBSS can not stay with me, go anywhere with me, or play the game that i bought because that is my form of punishment to him. I can't tell is BM because she is to stupid acting and you can't have a grown folks conversation with her. I am so mad right now. Did i handle this right? I need some advice.