I was together with some friends over the weekend, and experienced some seriously insane sh!t.

A friend of mine is a divorced mother of two (girl 6 and boy 7)and has a deadbeat'ish ex. I say deadbeat'ish, because he barely works but has his kids 50/50 and does try to be involved. They have had a really rough road and have now been divorced for 4yrs. ExH has a girlfriend, serious, and she is wonderful with the kids, even biomom (my friend) thinks so.

Over the years, there has been CRAZINESS! I mean, they are both high conflict so you can imagine the crazy. (there is a huge fight at least 2x a month)

She is totally one of those mamabear, "I'll do whatever for my kids!" and to hell with who doesn't agree, kind of people.

She has found religion lately and has been attending service at her ex's church, because she says the kids love it that she's there...right... We live in a HUGE city. She could pick another church. Leave the children in peace with biodad, as he tries to do with her.

She attended on Easter Sunday and the ex's parents invited her for Easter since ex had the children that week. SHE WENT. This is after some real ugliness lately because exh can't respect boundaries and is the type to write ugly texts etc... (she unblocked him after having him blocked for months!) SO Easter was her and the Ex's family including ex, kids and his gf. When I and a few others expressed shock, she went nuts. Like head spinning nonsense. It was classic GU and I was totally fascinated by seeing it from the other side.

She was defending what she did by screaming, "I can put aside all of this for MY CHILDREN. They were happy we were all one big family, and if I can give them that, then I will! I will die for my kids and they know it!!!!!!" I couldn't even speak, I was so shocked, she TRULY believed the crazy coming out of her mouth. (we didn't ask her to defend it by the way- i just asked 'why?')