Her posting lies about my Hubby is driving me INSANE!
I don't get it? Why is this woman still so hung up on what She thought my Husband did years ago, and why does she still screw up and call him HER husband in the middle of her rants? She is still going on about how he had SO MANY LOVERS after they divorced.
Hell if I were married to that ugly psycho bitch for that many years I would have went hog crazy and tried some new snatch out! I'm not kidding when I say ugly and it's not just to be mean, shes ugly inside and out! The thing is...He didn't have a revolving door of women after he left her.
I guess it would have been better for her if he were to have jumped into a new marriage a few months after their divorce like she did. Isn't that just as bad as what she is going on about? And honestly I just felt like I needed to get this out somewhere before I beat a bitch down :/
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Wow! that solves ALL my
Wow! that solves ALL my problem Thanks
just block her. then you
just block her. then you can't see anything that pertains to her at all. it's a wonderful option and one i have used to get sd out of my virtual world. it's pretty much gotten her out of my world altogether. no reason to let these people have control over how we feel.
It's all in the spinning of
It's all in the spinning of it. I would have to LAUGH if my DH's ex was going on about the lovers he had after their divorce (they were never married but you understand what I mean).
I mean "DIVORCE" means you give up the RIGHT to be upset over who your ex has in their bed!!
You just have to learn to laugh at the inept mental gymnastics of these psychos!
I'm sorry, I'm just hurt for
I'm sorry, I'm just hurt for my husband because this has caused a lot of his friends to quit talking to him because their wives think he's a man ho. He really as a good man. He treats me like a queen even after being together for 4 years. So I guess It's not just about the posts she makes but how it is effecting his life.
those that mind don't matter
those that mind don't matter and those that matter don't mind
This is so true Echo!!! Kids
This is so true Echo!!! Kids can be brainwashed but when they see the truth living out right in front of them it kicks all those lies ASS!!! Our BM constantly trashes SO and I and SD just listens to her and agrees with her sometimes just to placate her. She comes home and breathes a huge sigh of relief because we don't do that to her.
I agree with Echo as well.
I agree with Echo as well. When DH's kid started talking about Uberskank having a FB page, I immediately blocked Uberskank. When DH's kid got a FB page, I did the same to her as well. I am FB friends with many of DH's family members and I do not want Uberskank or DH's kid to see my information. Neither do I want to see any of theirs.
Do yourself a favor, block her on FB and/or stop reading her comments. Because at this point, who is more psycho, the person writing the crap or the person reading it and getting upset about it?
My apologies for the harsh
My apologies for the harsh message, but I have a difficult time understanding why people continually read things they know will upset them. For example:
DH will get a text or VM from Uberskank, usually they are long winded and full of BS. He gets upset, summarizes the message for me and then offers to let me read/listen to it. :?
Why in the world would I want to do that? It's the equivalent of someone saying "Gross, this is disgusting, taste it."
So again, who is doing more damage in this situation? The psycho posting the messages or the person that's reading them?
Thank you. I do have to
Thank you. I do have to confess, I voiced my opinion based on my personal experience. In the early days of my marriage to DH, I did read the texts and he would play her VM's on speaker for me to hear them. It would put my stomach in knots and didn't help my chronic insomnia one little bit.
I was very involved in the custody cases, mostly because I was being attacked. After the final blow up about 3 years ago though, I completely disengaged. I had to, because of the constant barrage of crap from DH, from Uberskank and from his kid was killing me. My health took a huge nose dive, my mental health followed and my career was also suffering.
After the wake up calls from two doctors and my boss, I finally realized I had to remove myself from the situation. I listen to DH relay messages and conversations the way a counselor does, I do my very best not to get emotionally involved. Which means I don't read Uberskank's crazy ass texts, I don't listen to the VM's she leaves for DH, I blocked her on FB and I have not spoken a word to her in over 4 years.
Uberskank is a toxic and crazy-ass manipulator. I've found it best not to engage or be engaged with anything having to do with her. Which is why I feel so strongly about blocking EX's on FB or simply not reading their insane posts.
My coping mechanisms were
My coping mechanisms were dark chocolate and red wine.
I guess I am a mere mortal
I guess I am a mere mortal and would peak at the FB if I thought someone was trashing me or mine. It will get old and she will stop, but at first it is almost like you MUST read it. lol. I get you, coming out. haha
What you don't know can't
What you don't know can't hurt you.
Stay off the page. If she wants to rail and sound like a fool, you aren't going to stop that. If DH's "friends" stop being his friend because of stuff posted on FB, well... then they aren't really his friends. That's WAY too "junior high."
It will never cease to amaze me that these women just can't help themselves and stalk social media, then complain about what they find. :?
The only reason I know BM#1 has a FB page is because she's posted on SD's page. I've never been on her page to "check it out."
I don't even know if BM#2 has one or not.
Has it occurred to you, that if you can SEE Bm's status posts, that she has them DELIBERATELY set so that "non friends" can view them? Perhaps she knows you're looking and she can get to you?
Yeah, BM tried that tactic
Yeah, BM tried that tactic out when she and DH got divorced and SD was 2. Only she went straight to the person she thought MOST needed to know: SD. That's right, when SD was 5 and BM still bitter about the divorce, she informed SD that the reason for the divorce was (from the mouth of SD): Daddy had too many girlfriends. OK, the man was faithful while they were married. He did slip up and start dating someone after they separated, whom he subsequently married and very shortly thereafter divorced. So it wasn't on Facebook, it was just told directly to BM's little pawn in the game of "Who's the better person?" in the divorce wars.
I took the advice and blocked
I took the advice and blocked her. And no I don't think of myself as being Psycho for looking. The reason I even started looking was like I said, he was being shunned by all of his friends and couldn't figure out what was going on. My husband had friends that he had known since childhood and it really broke his heart. I kind of wish that it was me that that she would have put down and talked about.