Ive not posted anything for a while but I need to have another rant....sorry guys. yesterday was an ultimate nightmare. Firstly SD14 has been living with me and BD for apporx 6 months and weve had our ups and downs. all has been ok for the last few weeks not major arguements. However this weekend I have found out that SD has been lying saying shes is staying at her friends when really shes been camping out with a few girlfriends and a load of boys in the wood near where we live, trashing the woods, burning bins and being chased by the police. Also discovered that she stole alcohol from the house for her and her mates. So yesterday when she got back bf and I confronted her about it. She denied everything of course... im convinced she is a pathological liar!!!! and stormed out of the house. Discovered a few hours later she was at the friends who she claimed she satyed with the night before, So BF and I drove up and told the pother girls parents what we had discovered and they confirmed that their daughter had told them that she was staying at ours so both girls were caught red handed lying to both sets of parents. Any how when we picked SD and explained calmly that she was grounded for lying about her whereabout and about stealing alcohol world war 3 erupted... i mean seriously she called me and BD every effing bastard name she could lay her tongue too, and then went on to trash her room, throwing her stuff about kicking wall screaming etc etc. Whilst she was doing this me and BD stayed very calm and ignored this behaviour as she wanted us to start screaming back at her and have an argument but we decided that she cant argue with herself so we stayed calm just repeating "im not argueing with you youve done wrong and your punishment is to be grounded" I was very proud of BF and me for keeping so clam especially whilst being screamed at in the face and pushed around whilset she tried to get out of the front door at 10pm at night. SD does this every time she is in trouble she runs to her mums or grandparents and has never ever been made to face up to the consequences of her actions. So this afternoon guess what gets a call from BF telling me shes run away to grandparents again....well frankly they can keep the little cow!!!!! her behavioour is disgusting and i will not put up with her trashing my home or anything or anyone in it.