My wife’s ex husband calls her daily to “talk about the kids” he also calls night at bed time to speak to his kids. Now I would understand if he was actually a great father. But he’s not. He sees his kids once a kid and it usually entails him stopping by our house picking them up for dinner in the middle of rush hour nd dropping them off late before bedtime. He’s a joke and doesn’t take hem anymore than that. His phone calls are annoying and he calls her daily. He also dropped his son (7) off at our house at 1030 pm one night after taking him to dinner and watching the game and my wife seemed thrilled about this which was odd. She thinks that is being a good dad. Any thoughts on this? He never takes his kids on the weekend or for more than few hours a week so we can never get any alone time or go on any trips ourselves because of this.