My SO told me in the beginning of their relationship his ex was nice. After they got married everything changed. She became ugly inside and out. She demanded that he do what she said; he wasn't allowed to have friends or hang out with friends. After they divorced and I came along, I told him he needed to get some friends and learn how to hang out with people. He says to me all the time, I wish I met you first.
^^^^^^^^^^This is EXACTLY how my DH described her!! I mean, exactly. And he only married her because she got pregnant with SD and he was brought up with old southern tradition; as well as his parents pressured him to marry since their baby was on the way.
I've never met BM, since she refuses. Strange, she acts like I stole him from her or something. I met him a year after they'd split, he'd dated others before me, AND she cheated on him!!! But yet, according to BM and SD, *I* am the reason they're not one big happy family anymore????
Anyhow, yes, he wonders himself what he saw in her, since he was a bullrider doing rodeos at the time they met and he could pretty much have any chick he wanted. I've seen photos of her back then. She is not a looker, nothing special. She smokes (which he HATES) and always wears her hair short (which he hates).
My ex husband #1 is handsome, I'll admit. My ex #2, NOT. AT. ALL. And was mean, abusive, liar, cheater, bastard...so what I saw in him? He had me completely snowed at an extremely vulnerable period in my life. Took complete advantage...asshole.
I have asked my SO this and as I put in another post he thought he was doing the right thing to help her out and then though SS would help her marriage. I honestly don't think he was truly in love with her except maybe the little while she was pregnant and SS was just born. I just don't believe he married her out of love but out of wanting to help her oldest son. It was something I never wanted to hurt but it has given me a broader understanding of who BM really is and what a good man I have.
Face like Jay Leno from the nose down mmmm hmmm.
Body like a giganto boobed man , she is 6 ft tall with man hands and skinny(for her) legs and a big ole body with triple F boobs. yep. no lie.
DH met BM when he was 19. She was an "older" woman at 25 and experienced. He is naturally a romantic at heart; coupled with frequent, wild sex, and he was sold.
When she came home with the first STD that she passed on to him, he was ready to end it. She magically turned up pregnant almost immediately. And then he was "stuck". Coming from a divorced family, he didn't want to do that to his kids.
The second STD was also followed by a child, at which point he'd had enough and got a vascetomy. He didn't want kids to become band-aids for his marriage.
After that, BM had no recourse to fix anything. And the marriage quickly ended. This went on over the course of 7 years.
He caught the first one from her, and it was treatable. She conveniently turned up pregnant a week after he confronted her with HIS diagnosis.
The second one was not treatable, and she still has it. LUCKILY he didn't get it from her. He found that one out when he found the receipt for her Valtrex prescription that she had filled 2 days after their first appointment with the doctor to confirm the second pregnancy.
Needless to say, he has been tested for every STD known to man regularly since divorcing her and BOTH of his kids have been paternity tested.
I love this thread. I wonder what the hell he was thinking too...
1. she was cute 14yrs ago
2. apparently very charming
3. Olympic GOLD level pathological liar.
GET THIS! They met at a party, and flirted. They started to date and very quickly she turned out the be the 'wounded' type. DH, being a man, wanted to help her and next thing you know- has moved her in. She claimed physical abuse from her brother and said she couldn't live at home anymore. She was too distraught to work and naturally he wanted to protect her.
About 8mos in, it turned out she was fired from her job for stealing and there was an ongoing police investigation. She had helped herself to some credit cards by applying with his information. The abuse she suffered at home? THERE WAS NO BROTHER!
He kicked her out of the house and 1 month later? She contacted him with the happy news...
Flash forward 12 years, to when he met me... She faked breast cancer. SICK SICK SICK.
BM is beyond a freak show and has instilled the same level of ridiculous in her daughter.
There is now a poor new baby in the picture- different daddy. This poor sap has NO CLUE... but he maybe just as dumbass- 4 kids, 3 different women. Has NO ONE heard of a condom??
I hear you. I wonder the same
I hear you. I wonder the same exact thing.
My SO told me in the
My SO told me in the beginning of their relationship his ex was nice. After they got married everything changed. She became ugly inside and out. She demanded that he do what she said; he wasn't allowed to have friends or hang out with friends. After they divorced and I came along, I told him he needed to get some friends and learn how to hang out with people. He says to me all the time, I wish I met you first.
^^^^^^^^^^This is EXACTLY how
^^^^^^^^^^This is EXACTLY how my DH described her!! I mean, exactly. And he only married her because she got pregnant with SD and he was brought up with old southern tradition; as well as his parents pressured him to marry since their baby was on the way.
I've never met BM, since she refuses. Strange, she acts like I stole him from her or something. I met him a year after they'd split, he'd dated others before me, AND she cheated on him!!! But yet, according to BM and SD, *I* am the reason they're not one big happy family anymore????
Anyhow, yes, he wonders himself what he saw in her, since he was a bullrider doing rodeos at the time they met and he could pretty much have any chick he wanted. I've seen photos of her back then. She is not a looker, nothing special. She smokes (which he HATES) and always wears her hair short (which he hates).
My ex husband #1 is handsome, I'll admit. My ex #2, NOT. AT. ALL. And was mean, abusive, liar, cheater, bastard...so what I saw in him? He had me completely snowed at an extremely vulnerable period in my life. Took complete advantage...asshole.
I have asked my SO this and
I have asked my SO this and as I put in another post he thought he was doing the right thing to help her out and then though SS would help her marriage. I honestly don't think he was truly in love with her except maybe the little while she was pregnant and SS was just born. I just don't believe he married her out of love but out of wanting to help her oldest son. It was something I never wanted to hurt but it has given me a broader understanding of who BM really is and what a good man I have.
I look at her and watch how
I look at her and watch how she acts and I wonder that all the time. We are completely night and day. Im AWESOME and shes just flat out ridiculous.
Yeah, but I not keep them
Yeah, but I not keep them around for 14 yrs either...LOL
mine said he had to drink
mine said he had to drink just to get the beer goggles goin just so he could look at her. LOL thats horrible.
LMAO! I call my DH's ex
LMAO! I call my DH's ex "Horseface". She looks just like a Horse!
Everyone that hears it burst out laughing because it's so true!
Eeeee-hawwww
I guess our DH's wanted to be
I guess our DH's wanted to be farmers....Miss Piggy Here!
LMAO!!!
Face like Jay Leno from the
Face like Jay Leno from the nose down mmmm hmmm.
Body like a giganto boobed man , she is 6 ft tall with man hands and skinny(for her) legs and a big ole body with triple F boobs. yep. no lie.
Ive been wanting to lose 8
Ive been wanting to lose 8 lbs, could you send me photos ? lol jk
Whale tail?? OMG I almost
Whale tail?? OMG I almost choked on my water when I read that! And I can only imagine what you're referring to... :sick:
So I assume he never married
So I assume he never married her lol?
DH met BM when he was 19.
DH met BM when he was 19. She was an "older" woman at 25 and experienced. He is naturally a romantic at heart; coupled with frequent, wild sex, and he was sold.
When she came home with the first STD that she passed on to him, he was ready to end it. She magically turned up pregnant almost immediately. And then he was "stuck". Coming from a divorced family, he didn't want to do that to his kids.
The second STD was also followed by a child, at which point he'd had enough and got a vascetomy. He didn't want kids to become band-aids for his marriage.
After that, BM had no recourse to fix anything. And the marriage quickly ended. This went on over the course of 7 years.
He caught the first one from
He caught the first one from her, and it was treatable. She conveniently turned up pregnant a week after he confronted her with HIS diagnosis.
The second one was not treatable, and she still has it. LUCKILY he didn't get it from her. He found that one out when he found the receipt for her Valtrex prescription that she had filled 2 days after their first appointment with the doctor to confirm the second pregnancy.
Needless to say, he has been tested for every STD known to man regularly since divorcing her and BOTH of his kids have been paternity tested.
I love this thread. I wonder
I love this thread. I wonder what the hell he was thinking too...
1. she was cute 14yrs ago
2. apparently very charming
3. Olympic GOLD level pathological liar.
GET THIS! They met at a party, and flirted. They started to date and very quickly she turned out the be the 'wounded' type. DH, being a man, wanted to help her and next thing you know- has moved her in. She claimed physical abuse from her brother and said she couldn't live at home anymore. She was too distraught to work and naturally he wanted to protect her.
About 8mos in, it turned out she was fired from her job for stealing and there was an ongoing police investigation. She had helped herself to some credit cards by applying with his information. The abuse she suffered at home? THERE WAS NO BROTHER!
He kicked her out of the house and 1 month later? She contacted him with the happy news...
Flash forward 12 years, to when he met me... She faked breast cancer. SICK SICK SICK.
BM is beyond a freak show and has instilled the same level of ridiculous in her daughter.
There is now a poor new baby in the picture- different daddy. This poor sap has NO CLUE... but he maybe just as dumbass- 4 kids, 3 different women. Has NO ONE heard of a condom??
Holy Hell. She's a real
Holy Hell. She's a real WINNER! My God... :O