I'm new to this sight. I can not believe how many of us are sharing the same experiences to different degrees.

If anyone where to tell me I was going to meet the man of my life at the age of 42 and he was going to come along with 4 girls and a crazy ass ex, I would not have believed it.

Sure, it's fraustrating as hell dealing with the ex and the consistant drama she brings. I could throw up at the way she uses the girls and munipulates him.

Yeah, we are broke right now. His paycheck goes directly to her.
We can't afford to get married the way we would like to right now.

But through talking, he and I work through it. I love him so much. Now that he is in my life, I can't imagine being without him. We have fun at any cost. Laughter is truely the best medicine. One of our fun things is watching dvd's of Married with Children.

Any of you want to share your feelings toward him or how you two have fun to keep it together.

Jo