Yes, we have one. No consiquences ever, does not ever want to be the "bad parent", lets go shopping and I will buy you this and we will go on vacation. GRRRRR!!!
Our Bm took the skids to an amusement park because DH wasn't being fair and had grounded them for busting out windows in the house, and when BM found out SS14 was sleping with his girlfriend, she drives them to dates and lets them have "sleepovers" like WTF!!! She is just a stupid Bitch!!!
We have a Disneyland grandmother (mother of BM), however, the kids see it as everything coming from BM. BM doesn't work. She collects from the state and her mother pays her rent and household bills. I guess I should say her mother pays whatever BM can't get whoever the current BF is to pay.
SKIDS are 13 and 16. In the last 2 years, she has given them each an unlimited cell phone, each got a laptop for their birthdays this last year, the 16 year old got a car with his laptop birthday gift, and each of them got a 50" plasma tv for their bedrooms for Christmas. BM flipped when DH bought a 48" for our living room and told the kids if he had money like that, he should be giving them more...
BM used to let SS skip visitation with DH so his GF could spend the weekends with him at BM's house. SS was 14 at the time as well.
I can just imagine what SD13's future holds. Knocked up at 15/16 probably, with BM all exctied because they'll have a new little baby to play house with!!!
I guess that would make her the "fairy grandmother." LOL. I'm sorry. I couldn't resist. I am a grandmother also. If my daughter were raising children on her own and needed a hand up, I would provide it for her too just for the simple fact that I DON'T want them moving in with me.
Maybe that's why grandma pays her household expenses.
BUT, that would only go so far. I'd be all over her like flies on poop to get off her duff to get a job.
I would say SD's BM has Borderline Disney-Disorder...lol She makes sure SD keeps up with her studies but she's takes her to every event under the sun, buying out Toys-R-Us, letting her watch inappropriate stuff on TV and talking about adult things likely. BM treats her more like a friend her equal. And she wonders why SD power trips her. Ha!
It is just amazing to me that Disney Land (that is my new ST name for her)wants to be the "friend". Parenting sucks sometimes, I just had it out with my BD last night about how there are rules for a reason and school is important..blah blah blah.
You betcha! Wilda buys SD9 stuff constantly and acts like she's her best friend. They go out to eat all the time and SD controls the tv when she's there. She's so busy trying to be her buddy that she's not being a mother at all.
"There are two things over which you have complete dominion, authority, and control over - your mind and your mouth".
We have a NC BM. Oh yea it's Disneyland over there. Running the streets 1AM. Found that out. No structure, no disipline, no responsibility nothing. Eat what they want, whole bags of chips, cokes all day, cupcakes, cookies, going out to eat every night. But....BM never has money to help with school clothes, supplies, sports, school lunches or anything important. If it doesn't make her look good she don't do it. BM was suppose to bring SD cupcakes to school for her bday but she "forgot." Guess who had to figure something out 8am when I had a meeting @ 9am? ME!!! But all was great cause BM took SD out to eat that night for her bday. Go figure.
Oh we definitely have one. SD came back from BM one day last week and when we asked her if she did her homework, she said no. When we asked what she did do, she said "we watched Aladin three times in a row." Awesome job, BM.
BM also refuses to help us pay for SD's braces because she says money's just really tight right now. In the same conversation (literally 5 minutes later) she says that she's planning a trip for all of them to Germany in June so SD will have to miss some softball games. Reality has no place in this woman's world.
I know! It's so ridiculous. How little effort are you willing to put into your parenting that you not only just shove your kids in front of the television, but you don't even change the movie? Really?! At least switch it up instead of hitting the "play again" button. She's not 2, she's 10 years old. She will in fact notice that it's the same movie.
Our Bm took the skids to an
Our Bm took the skids to an amusement park because DH wasn't being fair and had grounded them for busting out windows in the house, and when BM found out SS14 was sleping with his girlfriend, she drives them to dates and lets them have "sleepovers" like WTF!!! She is just a stupid Bitch!!!
We have a Disneyland
We have a Disneyland grandmother (mother of BM), however, the kids see it as everything coming from BM. BM doesn't work. She collects from the state and her mother pays her rent and household bills. I guess I should say her mother pays whatever BM can't get whoever the current BF is to pay.
SKIDS are 13 and 16. In the last 2 years, she has given them each an unlimited cell phone, each got a laptop for their birthdays this last year, the 16 year old got a car with his laptop birthday gift, and each of them got a 50" plasma tv for their bedrooms for Christmas. BM flipped when DH bought a 48" for our living room and told the kids if he had money like that, he should be giving them more...
BM used to let SS skip visitation with DH so his GF could spend the weekends with him at BM's house. SS was 14 at the time as well.
I can just imagine what SD13's future holds. Knocked up at 15/16 probably, with BM all exctied because they'll have a new little baby to play house with!!!
Man, I feel for those kids...
I guess that would make her
I guess that would make her the "fairy grandmother." LOL. I'm sorry. I couldn't resist. I am a grandmother also. If my daughter were raising children on her own and needed a hand up, I would provide it for her too just for the simple fact that I DON'T want them moving in with me.
Maybe that's why grandma pays her household expenses.
BUT, that would only go so far. I'd be all over her like flies on poop to get off her duff to get a job.
We have a disneyland CP
We have a disneyland CP Biomom as well! It sucks!! The two stepsons are spoiled brats!!
I would say SD's BM has
I would say SD's BM has Borderline Disney-Disorder...lol She makes sure SD keeps up with her studies but she's takes her to every event under the sun, buying out Toys-R-Us, letting her watch inappropriate stuff on TV and talking about adult things likely. BM treats her more like a friend her equal. And she wonders why SD power trips her. Ha!
Good Grief!!! I think we
Good Grief!!! I think we share the same BM!!!!
"Just because I'm paranoid doesn't mean people aren't out to get me"
It is just amazing to me
It is just amazing to me that Disney Land (that is my new ST name for her)wants to be the "friend". Parenting sucks sometimes, I just had it out with my BD last night about how there are rules for a reason and school is important..blah blah blah.
"The second mouse always gets the cheese"
You betcha! Wilda buys SD9
You betcha! Wilda buys SD9 stuff constantly and acts like she's her best friend. They go out to eat all the time and SD controls the tv when she's there. She's so busy trying to be her buddy that she's not being a mother at all.
"There are two things over which you have complete dominion, authority, and control over - your mind and your mouth".
We have a NC BM. Oh yea it's
We have a NC BM. Oh yea it's Disneyland over there. Running the streets 1AM. Found that out. No structure, no disipline, no responsibility nothing. Eat what they want, whole bags of chips, cokes all day, cupcakes, cookies, going out to eat every night. But....BM never has money to help with school clothes, supplies, sports, school lunches or anything important. If it doesn't make her look good she don't do it. BM was suppose to bring SD cupcakes to school for her bday but she "forgot." Guess who had to figure something out 8am when I had a meeting @ 9am? ME!!! But all was great cause BM took SD out to eat that night for her bday. Go figure.
Parent, It's a verb, not a noun.
Oh we definitely have one.
Oh we definitely have one. SD came back from BM one day last week and when we asked her if she did her homework, she said no. When we asked what she did do, she said "we watched Aladin three times in a row." Awesome job, BM.
BM also refuses to help us pay for SD's braces because she says money's just really tight right now. In the same conversation (literally 5 minutes later) she says that she's planning a trip for all of them to Germany in June so SD will have to miss some softball games. Reality has no place in this woman's world.
I know! It's so ridiculous.
I know! It's so ridiculous. How little effort are you willing to put into your parenting that you not only just shove your kids in front of the television, but you don't even change the movie? Really?! At least switch it up instead of hitting the "play again" button. She's not 2, she's 10 years old. She will in fact notice that it's the same movie.