DC'S mum on holiday in red zone....another two weeks of this!
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Ss has been with us two weeks on Tuesday next week and his mum is having to quarantine when she gets back....
Long story short...
I have a tiny 2bed house, barely my own private space.
Ss is 14 and very very lazy, doesn't clean after himself at all. I have to wait hand and foot on him.
I have had to cancel my and DPs year anniversary weekend now because of this.
I'm working 50 hrs a week and when I get home the house is a bloody tip.
2.5 more weeks of it!!
Oh and Dp has called me a cow because I'm pissed off about it all.
And what is your DP doing
And what is your DP doing about it? Your partner needs to step up here to provide clear expectations and consequences, or pick up after the kid himself. Why in the world is SS's laziness your problem?
AND SS needs to knock off the disrespect and name calling. Again, what does your DP do about it?
If I came home and found the house a pigsty, the wifi would be off immediately, no phone, no tv, nothing, until the house was in order. I'd be supervising from the back deck with a glass of wine.
I just need my own space
I just need my own space after a while. I can do two weeks tops and this has made me sob and sob.
I feel so guilty. I was on my own 7years before I met DP and sharing my house with one person is difficult as it is
You do not need to wait on your partner's child
Put the responsibility on your partner.
Any guilt you feel is your partner gaslighting you.
If your SO
Wants to take his DD for weeks. He should have a proper place for that. Not a one bedroom place
Dont let him gaslight you. It’s his failure that got begin in this zoo. He should be cleaning up after her
BOTH of them should be out of
BOTH of them should be out of your house now. You know this.
I am at the end of my tether.
I am at the end of my tether. Bm is back Monday. Ss can go back providing they are not showing symptoms but you can bet your bottom dollar they develop symptoms so we keep him and his lazy ass her for another 2weeks.