SD married Sat I was more worried that DH would make me feel like third wheel around BM family which did not happen. Thank goodness!! Now my issue was and I'm still having a hard time dealing with, during rehearsal BM tells me she wants me to seat myself beside her husband and before I had a chance to say anything she walks away. I go tell DH and he says no you will be sitting with me. Then SD comes and asks me if I care to seat myself I say to her if that's what you want then yes. I was so pissed by this point I just dropped it. After that being said the grooms step mom was then being said to be escorted down. BM is so jealous of our relationship she can't stand it. Next day before the wedding I tell DH that is very disrespectful to me that he did not stand up for me to SD and BM on this. I guess my feelings are hurt more than anything due to the BM's on both sides as well as the grooms step mom was acknowledged and that I was excluded. DH and I paid for this wedding 2,500 BM paid nothing absolutely nothing. Yes BM you got your way again like always.