This is the guy who changed his mind about having kids? Please don't waste any more of your time with him. Find someone who wants to have a baby with you.

Bm did this. The kids started exaggerating and making bad stuff up because that's what she wanted to hear. In her care they are suicidal, have panic attacks and are truant.  She taught them that normal parenting (ie discipline and rules) was abuse.  She has sole custody now.

Meth Mouth did this, she and GrandHag would park Spawn in a chair with a spotlight and interrogate her about what would go on at our house...okay not really, but there would be an hour period where they would just question her about all the goings on at our house.
When DH would pick Spawn up from visitation his innocuous "So how was your weekend" was always met with "It was fine why do you have to know everything I do over there!"

Happened here too.

Wait until you see the kids using their cameras, cells to walk around your house cuz, Mom wants to see our rooooms. Mom wants to seeee where we stay.

Wait until they grow older and start writing down names of medication you or dh takes. OR wait until they remove mail out of your mail box.

Stuff like that only happens when skid is around. Not coincidence.just stating the facts.

Leave before it gets that bad, ok?

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We had to get cameras but they came too late. DSS made up some attrocious accusations about me and ODS...now neither one of us are allowed around him.

they had disappeared for 5.5 yrs, me and hubby had been married 3.5 yrs and had a 1 & 2.5 yr old children when they re-initiatiated contact. 

every meet we had literally seconds into sd’s 22 & 13 entering our car was a run down interrogations report on what they reported to bio mum about me, hubby, our 2 kids together that bio mum had pics of my 2 kids (which sd’s had no permission to take. Lets not forget the fact bio mum goes to witch drs that practice black magic to harm people, bio mums own family practice witchcraft and her having pics of my kids to do nasty shit... i told hubby any pics got forwarded to his daughters and i’d end the marriage!!! Hubby claimed they didn’t have bad intentions but red flags were up. The fact skids do not treat us as family and want us gone reinforces the fact they should not be entitled to any pics of us

sd now 24.5 and almost 15 still report to bio mum and stepdad everything then in the car tell everyone their bio mum and stepdads comments about us what we did, what we spoke about, how we are like, what we wore etc... such an invasion of privacy. 

How did i end this?? I refused any meets, any family events sd’s would be there it was a hell no!! Hubby would fall back into guilty daddy mode now and then and i simply reminded him those 2 daughters have no respect for personal boundaries or privacy and i will not be subjected to bio mums interrogation tactics... by not being present, she gets nada!!! She can’t accuse anything or make up stories because she has absolutely nothing. She doesn’t get to control me too!!! 

My husband would ignore anything sd’s ranted about bio mum instead of telling them to shut up. It was sd’s way of making bio mum relevant

until late last yr hubby had lunch with eldest sd and told her off how inappropriate and disrespectful it was she’d rant non stop about bio mum and this is useless bullshit like what they did “mummy went to shops, mummy and daddy (yup she has been brainwashed to call stepdad daddy!!) went here and did this and said that” blah blah blah and the same shit is repeated every meet and hubby tells me after he just zones out when he hears about the witch and her husband whom thet were having an affair wirh whilst married

Sd’s don’t even care how upsetting it is for their dad its like a knife through the heart to find out hobag ex was whoring around and married the guy and convinced him to leave his wife for her out of desperation...now sd’s cease contact because hubby set boundaries but thats fine. Hubby knows the manipulative bs they pull ends up in more manipulative bs whilst him sticking up for us result in our marriage coming first and our relationship becoming stronger.

when bio mum found out hubby was dating an educated caucasian girl, she went livid and called hubbys eldest sistser calling me a christian caucasian whore and she had to protect her daughters from us... reality was she’d kidnaooed and pas’ed them over a yr prior and saw a way to spin things for her. She ranted how hubby had left their religion to become a Christian. Lol it backfired bigtime when she found out i was born in the same religion as them and grew up with that same religion and still practice it so when sd’s questioned her she claimed she was a born again religious wiman and sd’s said ok and truly believed her. I do not ever see sd’s seeing reality and the truth, they are too brainwashed and hubby knows he is never to leave my kids with them because as the father its his job to parent. 

My son is allergic and anaphylactic to cats and eggs, sd’s have 3 cats and hairs all over them and my son always ends up with rashes and swollen eyes and face because of it. Them being glorified half sisters is not enough to convince me we force pur kids to be around them.

hubby knows i will never be around his daughters ever again

BM would do this and then send outlandish accusations back at DH about all the terrible things we were saying and doing around the kids. SSs are in high school now and DH has been straight with them and told them that he is not okay with them starting drama with their mother and they don't need to report everything back to her. There have been a couple of incidents where BM has emailed DH to tell him how upset SSs were after a visit and DH called them instead of replying to her to find out what was going on. They both denied saying anything to BM. Then one SS called back and said that he did in fact say something to BM, but it was only because of XYZ. DH reminded this child that DH never gets angry at him when he is feeling upset or scared or confused about something and he should always feel like he should come to DH if they have an issue. We now get fewer messages from BM, but not sure if that's because SSs are sharing less with her or if she is just emailing less. 

It does damage the children. One SS has told DH that he often feels conflicted and doesn't know what to do, because BM becomes so upset about things. He was in counseling for a bit, but BM stopped taking him after it became clear that the counselor was not going to say that DH was a terrible person. 

Time to have some fun.  Start creating some juicy details for the kids to take back to BM.  Talk of an inheritance, shopping for a big new home, leave vacation invoices (nicely done fakes of course) laying around the house, Just before the Skids arrive for a visit go rent two high end cars and park your vehicles at a friend's house.  Anywhere that you go  drive "your" beautiful new cars. If the Skid's ask, just say "We just got them.". Nothing more. When they come back and ask about the cars, just say you decided to return them.  Nothing more.

Don't tell the Skids that these things have happened, just speak of them to each other within earshot of the Skids.

When BM goes nuckin futz, if she takes you to court you can truthfully answer that you have no inheritance, there are no new houses, high end vacations or new cars.  

The Skids need to know that what happens at Dad's stays at Dad's as is the case with what happens at BM's.  Tell them that directly. BM will of course drag all that they have seen and heard out of them but since the Skids will not know it is all a fantasy BM will hear what she wants to hear.

When she takes this and runs with it BM will never be able to trust anything that the Skids report from your home again.  Keep the next less fantastic installment of fantasy prepared for immediate play whenever necessary.  Job promotions, raises, etc, etc, etc.... Not told directly to the Skids but spoken of within their hearing.  Speak of past weekend trips to resorts, beautiful dinners, etc.... 

When BM asks.... tell the truth.  "Those things never happened."  Crazy making an X makes much more sense than tolerating their interference in our families or tolerating their use of Skids as spies cannot be tolerated.  If BM learns to get her shit together and stop using her own children to get at their father then good for her. If not, then she suffers the fullest consequence possible and that includes her children feeding her loads of bullshit that they don't even know is bullshit.

Have fun.