BM is a control witch!!!!!!!
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Well its her day with SD8 and she calls BF and asks him to watch her cus she has something important to do. Well he jumps and picks up SD and screw whatever plans we have! SHe knows he will do what ever she wants cus she plays the guilt card with him. Ohh SD misses you and wont stay with anyone eles......bla bla bla. Dont get me wrong lately things with SD have been good. And she is a good kid. But i dont like this woman controlx my life!!!!!!!! I need to talk to him about it cus im not gonna let her get away with this crap!!!!!!!!
who has custody?
regardless, y'all need to stick w what schedule u have in place thru the courts. no doing special favors for BM bc she will only take advantage. plus, like u said, u guys need to have a life and be able to plan things too and not have them changed bc u have to have SD on a day thats not urs.
BM is a Control Witch
I am not a step parent but might as well be. My boyfriend of 3 years has a 3 1/2 year old daughter and her mother does this all of the time. They have a pretty set schedule: Mondays, Wednesdays and every other weekend. Whenenver my boyfriend asks if his daughter can spend the night she says no and that she wants her home but whenever she has plans after work or does not feel well she calls and asks. He has no guts because she makes him feel guilty and this is the only time we ever argue. She also asks where I sleep when she is over and I think that is none of her business. I know how you feel but in a way I feel like I signed up for this because his daughter will always be first.
I wont put up with unacceptable behavior
I can handle alot.....but when BM asks for a favor to babysit on her day, she is on her own. She cant be trusted..she drops off SD and then is no where to be found. My BF called that nite for hours....she finally picked up after 930. IT was a school nite!! She asked him to babysit for 1 hour 6-7!!! WEll you better believe that im not going for that!! I told BF that next time she asks for favor the answer is NO! He agreed. Because yes he wanted to see SD but it the end it was sucky for him and her and me!!!
I think there are certain things we sign up for that we have to deal with . But i didnt sign up to be a door mat.