2.5 to go
thats weeks with the Sd8. I have had her for a stretch. 3 weeks allready. THe longest time i have ever done. Usually its 4 days on 4 day off.. Im broke...and so it BF...its costing us to have her here so much. Thats because she gets alot of what she wants. Not everything...but much.And that i really dont care as much as i just want so time alone with my BF!!! thats all i really want. SO i told him next week lets get a sitter and go to a hotel room. I need a break! Really God help me Im so sorry. But i dont have any bio children and this is kinda rough for me. I love his kids...but i do need a little break!
SOmething eles i wanna add. Yesterday he was pissed cus my dogs dug a hole in his new grass. Well i told him its a package deal he gets me and my dogs and i get him and his skids. THey do alot more damage in the house then my dogs. Plus they dont need laundry done or babysitters! deal with it!! he understood. Good man!
I understand..........
I do have a bio son (15), and it doesn't seem to make me feel any differently about BF's kids (S12 & D11). They're great but not mine. I'm use to having one around, doesn't mean I'm great with three.
I find it so confusing, all of the information I read on how women need time for themselves and how important it is to keep us from going over the edge. But, as soon as we want to or do we feel selfish and others start to judge. And, who's to say how much time any person needs? I think it's a great idea for you and BF to get sometime together! Take a break. Your relationship is just as important.
"That would be a good thing for them to cut on my tombstone: Wherever she went, including here, it was against her better judgment."
Dorothy Parker, 'But the One on the Right,' in New Yorker, 1929
US author, humorist, poet, & wit (1893 - 1967)
Judging...
If it's okay to admit that your own kids get on your nerves, then it's okay to admit that your skids get on your nerves. If it's okay to want to send your own kids to the moon, then it's okay to want to buy your skids seats on the same shuttle.
I treat 'em all alike, whether that's good or bad, lol! And as for the judgments? I don't listen to them. Not a one.
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ANNE 8102 ♥ GEORGIA
thanks for the feed back
sometimes i feel like a crumb, that i want alone time with my BF. Whats so wrong with that? I love the skids...but i love my Bf too. WHen Sd is around we get zero time together. She knocks on the door till we fall asleep so there is no time at nite and during the day she is usually stuck right up his butt.
Yes,
My BF's daughter is a clingy thing as well. All weekend if he stepped out of her sight for a moment to say something to me, she was right there..."Am I missing something?" or "Don't leave me out." Annoying! I have to remember my BS can be just as annoying, but it doesn't take me more than a second to reply, "You're not a part of this conversation right now." Never heard BF say that. If she's not up his butt it's mine trying to get me to take her shopping. I couldn't handle more than a few days with her. How long have you and BF been together?
"That would be a good thing for them to cut on my tombstone: Wherever she went, including here, it was against her better judgment."
Dorothy Parker, 'But the One on the Right,' in New Yorker, 1929
US author, humorist, poet, & wit (1893 - 1967)
3.5 years
we have been together. Ever since i have been with him its been 4 days on /off rotation. alot of the time we have them more than that, but never this long. THe ss13 is no problem at all, he is loving and helpful and doesnt whine. SD8 is also loving and helful..but requires consant input. ITs a little draining after a few weeks...basically i need to "fill my tank" cus im on empty.