BM acting up again...wtf
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BM is acting up again. I thought the dragon was sleeping but no.
SS has a school trip coming up but it overlaps onto a weekend. We have the kids every weekend. SS talked to DH about it and how he was excited to go.
BM emails DH and basically says "I've spoken to son about going on the school trip and how he can't go because he spends his weekends with you. He has thought about it and would rather not lose out on time with you than go away".
This is from the woman who last year tried to stop DH from seeing his son.
DH is obviously furious. So SS can't do normal kid stuff once in a while because his mom and dad divorced...right?
That could work. BM would
That could work. BM would find out when SS called her and I have no doubts she would go and pick him up from the trip.
DH can't go as he has to work. The trip is for 6 nights.
I feel so sorry for SS that he can't do normal stuff. DH always misses his kids when they are not with us but he knew SS was excited and didn't want him to miss out. It's like BM wants to prove that SS will always miss out because his parents aren't together. She hates DH and wants him to feel guilty and wants SS to know that he'll always either miss out on trips or miss out on seeing his dad.
Oh believe me, SS is going on
Oh believe me, SS is going on the trip. dH will deal with being made into the "bad guy" because he knows SS will have a great time.
It's just so shitty that BM has to play these games .
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Trips aren't completely
Trips aren't completely expense free. Could this be her way of trying to get out of paying for it by making you look like the bad guys, and when skiddo wants to go, you give him the spending money or pay for the trip?
Huh, hadn't thought of
Huh, hadn't thought of that...but probably. She thinks DH should pay for everything anyway because he was the one to end the relationship. So of course he must be punished forever. Even though she was seeing someone else and now they live together!