BM was found guilty of Parental Alienation of my SD11 and my SS9 (at the time). BM did everything to alienate the children from BF so he would be forced to make a decision between them or me (that's my theory).

I had a great relationship with the skids until BM started eating away at my relationship with SD. SD behavior got so out of control that BF told her to not come back to our home this past June. It's been heaven around here!! Now, BM is working overtime on the relationships I have with both SS's ages 10 and 11.

The other day, SS10 called BM asking for her SO to talk about football. He wasn't home, he was working. During the call, the battery to the phone died and disconnected them. SS got another phone and called BM back. I could hear him saying "no, the phone stopped working" She was asking him I had anything to do with it. Then SS put the phone on speaker, and BM was giving SS the number at work to call SO, and then said "OK, well I'll see you tomorrow...I love you..."

This would sound like a "normal" relationship of mother and son, but not for BM. BM does not say I love you freely to her children, nor is she affectionate with them. It's an act, to piss me off or make me jealous.

Also, I had taken SS11 shopping to get him supplies for his school sport. We told BM in an email what we had done. BM was pissed and basically told we shouldn't have done that and she was not paying for her portion of the extracurricular activities. The next time he came over he started to ridicule me for buying those things for him. My answer to him was "If your sister and brother get things for their sports, than why shouldn't you get special things for your sport?" He thought about it for a minute and agreed with me.

I can hand situations better with SS11 than with SS10, and he is the one I had a very close relationship with. Now that BM is smothering him with care and love (which he never got from her)how can I address the PAS with him? How do I handle him from becoming alienated from me?