My goodness. The complication of this situation never gets any easier does it.  I have a petty situation to discuss and have very mixed feelings about it.

We recently took my husbands now young adult daughter to New York and bought  tickets to a very expensive Broadway show.  We had a great time, however I thought the tickets very extravigant. But it was great and at the end of the show I told my stepdaughter that the actors sign playbills at the stage door after the performance.She had a great position and got 2 playbills signed,which my husband told me that one was for her and one for us.

Well after tthe signing, she said that one for her and the other one was for the best friend.  What? I was shocked.  I told her that I thought if she was planning to give our playbill to someone else she should have asked. I, too, would like a keepsake.   I could not believe she intended it for someone else other than the people that made it possible.  It hurt.  I have kept the playbill but the guilt is weighing on me.  Should I give it back to her to give give to her best friend? Am I being petty?  I honestly would like a keepsake but not at the expense of my marriage.  My husband thinks it doesn;t matter, it is just something that sits on a shelf, which is true, but should I give it up to sit on a shelf of someone that I do not even know?

This seems so silly, but yet I am hanging on....