My bf sent me a video of his son wrestling. Honestly, I didn't even open the video because I don't even care. I have somehow disengaged to the point where I don't care about anything he does. In my mind I was thinking send it to his mother. My bf pays $1,300 in child support and have 50/50 visitation. He is also behind on his bills, so I don't understand why I come home and his son is there for additional days and he didn't even bother to ask me. I don't understand why the BM allows him to come over for more days, because I would want to spend time with my son. In this case, I understand why she ships him to dad because he is more than a hand full. My issue is, if BM is going to send him for extra days then send him some cash for those extra days. If Bf is going to accept the son for extra days then he should be prepared to watch him all the time. If Bf has something to do on his visitation then he needs to make arrangements with the son's mother. I no longer take his son with me anywhere. He is not my responsibility, therefore how far does disengagement go? Am I too far? His son came over on an extra day and instead of being home I went to lunch with my friends, came home and cooked dinner and left back out to go to the movies and came home at 11pm.