BM had photo of skids as her profile on myspace
BM has made a few comments on DH's page and he hasnt deleted them. I was adding some photos to his page when I noticed that the kids photo was BM's profile pic!Way to go BM and expose your kids to all the creeps and pedophiles!!
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I don't get it!
Has your DH asked her to remove those pics? He might be able to contact the myspace administrators & have them ask her to remove them.
My SDs BM doesn't post pics of them on myspace but instead uses it as a way to date fellow deadbeat parents. She's friends with the kids on myspace so they get to see her grotesque posts
DH did politely ask BM to
DH did politely ask BM to remove the photos to at least a private folder. BM simply stated that they are her kids and that she can do whatever she wants with them.DH pointed out that the potential for a pedophile to harm the kids. BM laughed and said I dont care! BM then said that DH and I just want to control her!It has never been about that and personally I would like nothing to do with BM.We are just concerned about the kids.
You can have the admins do that? I was unaware.I will give that a shot.Thaks for the info.
Wow your BM is sick too.Why do they do that its like they use the kids as bait to act like a struggling single mom. Aghhh!! They are just manipulators who do not give a damn about anyone but themselves!
It is better to be the hammer than the anvil.
Emily Dickinson
can u believe
we actually had to have our atty put it in the court order that BM would cease posting pics of the kids on the internet?...I mean wtf???...do u really need a court order to make u not do that?...especially with all the creeps she hooked up with {shaking head}
"there are three sides to every story....your side, my side and the truth :)"
OMG that is crazy! You had
OMG that is crazy! You had to get a lawyer to get her to stop?!? What the hell is wrong with these women??
It is better to be the hammer than the anvil.
Emily Dickinson
Everyone is entitled to
Everyone is entitled to their own choices and opinions. I however find this unacceptable. I had a family member meet a guy over the net and they dated for a long time.Finally they ended moving in together.This is when he began molesting her BS3! He seemed like a normal guy and no one knew until he go caught by my family member! Needless to he is in jail.The worst part of all this is She is not the first woman and child he did this to.Sexual predators are sometimes devious enough to target single women with kids.It can happen. Although it may not happen all the time once is enough in my book!I know that our BM is not the brightest and doesnt exactly keep the best company so I am just looking out for my skids safety.Public is alot different than the internet.In public pedophiles still have to appear normal but on the net they can hide their identity and basically do whatever they want.This is why I have a problem with it. I hope this helps you understand.
It is better to be the hammer than the anvil.
Emily Dickinson
You know I never even
You know I never even thought of hiring a PI. That is a great idea.
"They might be crazy to date single parents with living ex’s though:)" How true this is lol BLM You are a trip
It is better to be the hammer than the anvil.
Emily Dickinson
Sunflower my BM has yours beat on stupidity hands down..
My BM has her my space page public so she can hook-up with men. Not only does she have multiple pics of SS BUT get this her WEDDING PHOTOS from 11 yrs ago with DH! WTF is what I said when I saw that. Ok now for the REALLY stupid thing BM did just to show how desperate she is for a man. OK you guys ready...she posted her phone # on a guys PUBLIC profile that she knew in college! Now maybe this guy is safe but who knows what psycho friends he has of worse yet anyone who goes to this guys page can see her phone #. If she wanted this guy to have her phone # the smart thing would have been is the send it in a private message,right?
Now of course you would think DH would be pissed at this but nope never said a word to her about it but thats anouther issue.
Sunflower my BM has yours beat on stupidity hands down..
My BM has her my space page public so she can hook-up with men. Not only does she have multiple pics of SS BUT get this her WEDDING PHOTOS from 11 yrs ago with DH! WTF is what I said when I saw that. Ok now for the REALLY stupid thing BM did just to show how desperate she is for a man. OK you guys ready...she posted her phone # on a guys PUBLIC profile that she knew in college! Now maybe this guy is safe but who knows what psycho friends he has of worse yet anyone who goes to this guys page can see her phone #. If she wanted this guy to have her phone # the smart thing would have been is the send it in a private message,right?
Now of course you would think DH would be pissed at this but nope never said a word to her about it but thats anouther issue.
Sunflower my BM has yours beat on stupidity hands down..
My BM has her my space page public so she can hook-up with men. Not only does she have multiple pics of SS BUT get this her WEDDING PHOTOS from 11 yrs ago with DH! WTF is what I said when I saw that. Ok now for the REALLY stupid thing BM did just to show how desperate she is for a man. OK you guys ready...she posted her phone # on a guys PUBLIC profile that she knew in college! Now maybe this guy is safe but who knows what psycho friends he has of worse yet anyone who goes to this guys page can see her phone #. If she wanted this guy to have her phone # the smart thing would have been is the send it in a private message,right?
Now of course you would think DH would be pissed at this but nope never said a word to her about it but thats anouther issue.
I am sure that BM will not
I am sure that BM will not be far behind on the using myspace to "hook up" if she doesnt already. BM obviously knows that you look at her page or at least she hopes you do. That would be why those old wedding photos are up there.Another possibility is that she hasnt "gotten over it".I feel so bad for you because I think that would drive me absolutely crazy. I would try not to let her see it bother you. That is what she is looking for. Our BM constantly does crap to try and get a rise out of me.I wont give her the satisfaction!The whole phone number thing well that just goes to show that she is not the brightest crayon in the box. Most of us would use common sense and send that kind of info on a private page. You must be so frustrated by this womans stupidity. Well look on the bright side at least the kids have you so all is not lost and they have one positive female rolemodel in their lives.
It is better to be the hammer than the anvil.
Emily Dickinson
sorry about the repeats computers messed up
My take on this is
If the website has certain privacy settings, then it's okay.
For example... I have my facebook page set to a friends only type of thing. Meaning that my friends are the only people that can see my site. And I only add my trusted friends.
If, however, the site can be accessed by anyone, then that's a bit of an issue. Especially if there is information on where you live... where you work... that sort of thing. It's a lot easier for predators to track you down like that if you're not careful. In this case, I think it's wrong.
OMG That is so creepy. I am
OMG That is so creepy. I am so relieved to hear that no harm came to her children.I am glad that they caught the scum bag!! It is so unbelieveable how easy it is for these freaks to blend in with society. :O
I think they need to start throwing these pedophiles into the general prision population again!! I think that would deter alot of these creeps. They get special treatment at prison and are all in together...Ehhhhh :sick:
I wish they would let them in with the general population they would at least get their come uppance. Eye for an Eye!! }:)
It is better to be the hammer than the anvil.
Emily Dickinson
Thank you I appreciate the
Thank you I appreciate the info.
I am so weirded out now though!! After I posted this BM changed her profile photo to herself again :? I am a bit worried that she has found her way onto steptalk
It is better to be the hammer than the anvil.
Emily Dickinson
Rest assured
Honestly, unless she is posting her physical address or phone number, a pedophile is unlikely to find her photos of her children and track them down using a mere photo.
The children are more at risk going to school, playing in their front yard or going to a friend's home. They're not likely to be abused because they have a photo online.
If your concern is the children's safety-then you can sleep tonight. A photo is not going to harm them.
I am a photographer and have TONS of photos of my and my sks online. I worry more about going to Wal-Mart with them and a sicko seeing them in person and trying to kidnap them than I do their online photos.
And I wouldn't doubt that BM is stalking my forums online and reading what I say. Just wave hello to the crazy obsessed lady.
I understand what you mean
I understand what you mean PS but I feel the same way as BLM.It just is way to creepy and there are some weirdos that do target mothers online...as I said before. I guess its all personal preference. It may be ok for others but its just not for me or my family.
It is better to be the hammer than the anvil.
Emily Dickinson
I understand what you mean
I understand what you mean PS but I feel the same way as BLM.It just is way to creepy and there are some weirdos that do target mothers online...as I said before. I guess its all personal preference. It may be ok for others but its just not for me or my family.
It is better to be the hammer than the anvil.
Emily Dickinson
Damn computer posted 3X
Sorry