Well you can't cure stupid. These women amaze me. In the beginning when DH was paying BM child support she through a hissy fit. DH would get paid EOW on Friday. On that Friday or Sat at the latest BM had $500 check in hand FAITHFULLY. She got mad and tore up the check he had written for CS and ran down to the Support Enforcement Office to have the money taken out of his check. Funny thing was that when you throw in a third party things can get reeeeaaaaaaaaaalllll slow maneuvering the many channels. So she initially had to wait for them to catch up with the paperwork before they could start taking it directly out of his pay. THEN she was getting the money on the following Wednesday. Hmmmm. Don't know what friend told her that it was easier. She would bitch and moan to DH that she hadn't gotten the money as if he was supposed to cut her another check. HA! Wait on it. Literally and physically idiot. Yeah it is a good laugh when their stupid shenanigans catch up with them and leave them in a jam. Do enjoy.

Anyone can take the easy way out and blame others. BUT it takes a a person of character to take a look at one's self and actions and own responsibility for their part. ~ ME ~ }:-P

So she wants the money...just not if it comes from you?? WTF???

My DH's ex was similar...DH and I had a joint account...my name was on HER CS checks...it enraged her. Sometimes, just for fun, I would sign them too. lol...dumbass actually would make a comment about "your new wife paying your bills for you and supporting you since you obviously can't"...ummmm hello??? Whose money do you think is being deposited IN that acct???

of all the stupid things for her to get persnickety about.....as I say with ex's wife.....far be it from me to think I have the power to prevent someone from cutting their nose off to spite their face....

"The beauty of life is, while we cannot undo what is done, we can see it, understand it, learn from it and change, So that every new moment is spent not in regret, guilt, fear or anger, but in wisdom, understanding, and love." -Jennifer Edwards

I would happily take my ex's girlfriend/wife's money for child support. What does it matter. As long as the support is being paid she should shut-up. Ugh. That is one of the stupidest things I have heard today...

"God grant me the serenity accept the things I cannot change; the strength to change the things I can; and the wisdom to know the difference."

We had the same laugh here a while back...
BM moved a few states away, but all the CO's are under our states jurisdiction. She went to her states CSE office and tried to say that there wasn't a support order in place and wanted DH to pay them directly. He sent them a copy of the current order and they realized that they can't modify another states order, so now instead of DH paying our states CSE and them cutting her a check, he pays our CSE, they cut a check to her states CSE, and then they cut a check to her... LMAO! I don't know when she gets paid now, but it took a little over 3 months for everything to be squared away and she finally started getting her checks again... and in the interim she was pissed off and asking why he wasn't paying his support. We really enjoyed the laugh over the whole situation.

When DH and BM first divorced he was paying her directly well over the amount he would have been told by the state. Well she got a wild hair up her ass and decided to go to CS enforcement and take DH to court for a court ordered CS payment. Well BM made an ass out of herself (as usual) and ended up with several hundred dollars less than she was getting.

Not that I'm mad, but good god, these women are idiots!