Guess my feelings dont matter
For those of you may remember around the holidays I was stuck with sd20 dog unannounced to me for like 16 days. I was so angry. My husband did not discuss this with me just took the damn dog in.
WELL low and behold, I come home yesterday to find the dog BACK and sd20 is on Spring Break in North Carolina. Gee, thanks DH for your consideration of my feelings after complaining three weeks around Christmas that I did not want another dog in my house.
I have a pug, my dog is treated like a queen. She is the baby that my husband and I have never had. She is not hyper active and is easily stressed out. Yesterday when I come home to find her hiding from the hyper active sd20's dog that had probably been chasing her all day long. Even my BD's told me the pug was actting funny.
I found chunks of carpet on my couch. Needless to say I had a few choice works with my husband WHO DID NOT ASK ME ABOUT KEEPING THE DOG NOR DID I KNOW STEPDAUGHTER IS ON SPRING BREAK. I FIND OUT FROM THE KIDS IN THE HOUSE WHAT IS GOING ON. I think I have honestly blew my top. May sound petty, but not for me and if I am once again over reactting someone please enlighten me.
Our divorce is still filed and coming up. But he is back home, still we arent wearing our rings, he still hasnt brought all of his clothes home from MIL. He still hasnt offered me my bank cards back yet. Im I honestly living in denial here.
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If they are YOUR bank cards
If they are YOUR bank cards why does he have them? If it a card to HIS account, he doesnt want you to have them because he likely has his own doubts. Clearly he didnt want to ask you about the dog because he already knew your answer and didnt like it. So youre opinion is held in low regard.
The bank cards
are to a joint account! That household bills were paid out of.
A joint account isnt HIS to
A joint account isnt HIS to keep from you. Why does he get to decide when you can access a joint account?
Not many promising signs here if you are hoping for reconciliation.
crate or kennel
I would either get a crate for one of them or take the other dog to the kennel and if she loves him so much let her or them pay to get him out.
What do you want to happen? Do you want to stay married to him or cut him lose? He hasn’t given you your bank cards?????? If its your account go to the bank and get your own cards..
He did this on purpose
I'd be mad jsut becuz he moved back in, wanting to get back together then the first thing he does is something behind your back--he knew would upset you.
I'd send him back to MILs.
The joint act thing is probably going to be difficult till the divorce is settled. You probably need him to still help with the bills, but he doesn't want to feel like he is giving you all the money. I don't see his access being denied till the divorce--or completed separation is done
If you can handle the bills on your own, get a single act for yourself and ask him for monies to pay half house payment etc. if you think he will. Or just pay half the house payment, with your access to the joint act, and half of it with your act.
awww girl....
I know why you allowed him to come back, but it sounds like nothing has changed for you. Call me if you need to talk...Im home ALL day now.....
sounds like revenge
he sounds like he wanted to come back and make you pay for what you did to him and his "princess"
that poor dog, unfortunately it is not its fault, I would say when you are not home put the dog in a crate. when you are home tie him up outside (depending on weather of course)
otherwise like Cru said take it to a pound and let them know you found this dog in your yard.
good luck!
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