to all of you thank you so much for all your advice ! help me out with this one: my DH ex miss-called him 'cause she was having a fight with her mom (again!! btw;she lives with the 2 kids and her mom in mom's house)my DH called her back and talked for about an hour... yes,an hour !!! (I didn't say anything 'cause I just wanted to see how long he would dare talk to her) when he was on the phone and I would come near him he would walk away from me so I can't hear what they're talking about (he says I'm to nosy); of course he said it was all about the kids 'cause when she and the mom fight DH is supposedly concerned about what could happen to the kids so DH had to calm down his ex. A half hour after he finally hung up on his "family therapy session" (that's what I called it) he got an IM on his cell from her saying that she's afraid of his infidelity and he always got what he wanted from her and she just wants him to help her with the house she is building so she can move out of her mom's house.I was mad as h*ll when that IM came in. The "good " thing was that it came right when we were both in the room and I got to his phone before he even got a chance to get his hands on the phone (he would've deleted it for sure)when I asked him what the f*ck this means he says she was already drunk when he was on the phone with her.what am I supposed to think of that ??? he still says that there's nothing going on...