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My S.O.has a dayjob from 7 am till 4 pm in construction and he works as a security guard from 10 pm till 4 am.
He comes home at 4:15 am from his nightjob; sleeps till 6 am; goes to his dayjob and comes home at 4:30 pm.
He'll watch tv till around 7pm eats dinner, takes a shower and either goes back to watching tv till 10 pm or sleeps from 8 pm till 9:30 pm (when I wake him up) and then goes to his nightjob.

need some help with CS

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I haven't been here for a while but I'll keep it short:
I'll be officially divorced next week wednesday. All the years (10) that I've been with DH I was the one who pushed him to pay CS to his ex; not just because he is obligated to do so but also so that they would shut up and stop whining about every little stupid thing.
Now that I don't give a damn no more about whether he pays them or not he started to slack already.He owes his ex a lot of CS and I have to say if it wasn't for me pushing him to do so he would owe them even more.

need some advice about SD(11)

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I recently saw an e-mail my SD (11) sent to my DH saying how she really doesn't like anything about me.
Then while she was chatting with DH she said that if DH and BM don't get together she can't/won't study;that everything was fine when mommy and daddy were together but since daddy has another woman (we've been married for 8 years/together for 10)everything turned

I don't know what to think of it anymore !!

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Hey all of you ! I am new to this blog but so happy I found it. from what I've read so far a lot of you have the same situation as me. I'm a mom of 3 and stepmom of 2 who live with their BM. My husband and I have been together for 9 years and married for 7.You would think that after 9 years his ex would back off and leave us alone; she'a always calling for money and whenever she feels like it (that's what it looks like to me)my husband used to say that he won't answer her calls 'cause she's annoying him.