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sarahbernheart's picture

well I had alluded to the fact I thought FS had used my credit card to buy himself something(posted to someone elses blog)..I was wrong. ( and I am glad I am wrong too) My oldest had used my card with my permission(the cc is safe and they pay me for the purchases in cash)(plus I get reward points!) so Bios neglected to mention that he had also purchased something from a company I didnt recognize so there mystery solved -FSS is horrid but I never thought he would sink to thievery. and he didnt.
* I will be honest I kinda was hoping he did do it then I would not have to worry about his behavior at our wedding.
oh well I am sure he will do something else instead! lol

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Really-ImTrying's picture

Wishing they'd do something so horrendous that you could just say "I'm done. I'm not dealing with it anymore" What am I supposed to say... She hugs me too hard?

Glad your CC is safe!! Good thing you checked before you accused! Wink

sarahbernheart's picture

isnt it, but FSS deserves it to a point ...he is the "type" jobless, loves to party- smokes..
and I have ONE cc and I know where it is at all times, so when i found out the time the purchase was made I knew it could not have been FSS. oh well there will be something else he will do that will help me get over the little guilt that I feel.

"Better a diamond with a flaw than a pebble without one."

secondwife20's picture

with Crayon.

Be careful!!!!

SS is probably waiting for you to trust him enough to leave your purse lying anywhere.

sarahbernheart's picture

IF he ever comes over again, you can bet your bootie I will make sure my purse is locked up..
yeah he will f-up for sure. just will wait patiently on my soap box!

"Better a diamond with a flaw than a pebble without one."

secondwife20's picture

is make a purse trap. Fill up a purse to make it look like yours only instead of real money... put fake money and fake credit cards (you know... those fake cards that credit people send to you to try and make you sign up with their credit card but they won't approve you because you need to have PERFECT CREDIT!?) in the wallet. Anyway. Set up a hidden camera so that it'll focus on the purse... and when SS tries to take a peek inside the purse, he'll be caught red handed! He's smart enough to know the difference between real and fake money and credit card, right? If not, awesome! That would be super funny to see him steal the fake money and credit card and try to use it. If he can, that's okay. You still caught him.

Smile And then when you catch him on video, post it on youtube so we can all watch it and laugh.

sarahbernheart's picture

but I like it!!

"Better a diamond with a flaw than a pebble without one."

now4teens's picture

The ONE silver lining here is that you found out the truth BEFORE even hinting this theory to FH....

Oh, what an ugly can of worms THAT would have opened up to accuse his "precious perfect son" of such an evil act...

PHEW! Dodged a bullet.

"Of course things worked out nicely for Carol Brady...she had a live-in maid and Mike's first wife was DEAD!"

sarahbernheart's picture

thanks 5!
I had gotten into trouble for accusing his son before. He took the car without permission and I mentioned it to FH and he said oh no he didnt take it and I said well it wasnt in the driveway when I got home and FH NO you are wrong it was the day before, to this day I am not sure if he is right or i was but let me tell you it was ugly
no thank you..

"Better a diamond with a flaw than a pebble without one."

now4teens's picture

(Blushing)

Crayon is right. You only have to quietly play the waiting game with FSS. You know it's coming (sad to say). So keep your things locked up and eventually, he'll be caughtin something stupid.

And the best part will be...you won't be involved with it in any way AT ALL!!! It will be all FSS's doing, so you can sit back and watch it all unfold with a quiet little "I told you so" smile on your face Wink

"Of course things worked out nicely for Carol Brady...she had a live-in maid and Mike's first wife was DEAD!"

Sia's picture

BEFORE you said anything or you relly would have been eating crow! But, I know how you feel and why you accused him first! I do that all the time w/SD17, but DH always asks for proof. I guess I should follow her around with a video camera! }:)

sarahbernheart's picture

and I wasnt NOT going to say anything until I had concrete proof that his little hellion had done the crime.
I learned my lesson and the lessons suffered by my fellow Stparents.

"Better a diamond with a flaw than a pebble without one."